“We’re seeing more of the sympathetic buddy,” said Dr. W. Grant Stevens,
the medical director of Marina Plastic Surgery Associates in Marina
del Rey, Calif. “I think over all there is more curiosity about plastic
surgery in general. The buddy may have his or her own curiosity. It
is a nonthreatening way for the buddy to have the plastic surgery experience.”
In certain situations and with appropriate behavior from friends, the
buddy can ease the fear and tension of consultations, as happened when
two women entered Dr. Stevens’s office together, all giggles. “One wanted
a breast reduction and one wanted a breast augmentation,” Dr. Stevens
recalled, “and of course the joke was, ‘Can you take them off of her
and put them on me?’ It breaks the ice a little bit.” It also can help
if the friend will be the primary caregiver after the surgery.