Gone are the days when patients slipped into a plastic surgeon’s office
alone and sometimes in disguise for a consultation and, after the surgery,
slinked away to a secret location to recover. Now, patients may arrive
not only with a wish list of procedures they have seen on TV or researched
online, but also flanked by parents, siblings, spouses or partners.
Or the wild card: the friend. For some doctors, having a second person
in the room can be extra insurance that the serious information they
are trying to impart is being heard. But at times the consultation begins
to feel like a shopping trip to Barneys. “They come in like it’s a party
event,” Dr. Hidalgo said. “Like, ‘We need an activity today, let’s go
see the plastic surgeon.’ ”