Category Archives: Attachment

When you feel ignored…

I hate feeling ignored. It hurts. But it rarely drives me crazy. I interpret being ignored, usually, as a loud answer to the bid I was making for someone’s attention. I don’t tend to stew over it. Instead, I think … Continue reading

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Time: I Tried to Cure My Burnout. Here’s What Happened

Jamie Ducharme writes: Their burnout symptoms improved, but it wasn’t necessarily the food that made the difference—it was support. “We have so many shared experiences and so many stressors that are in common, and yet physicians will often feel like, … Continue reading

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The Brain has a Mind of its Own: Attachment, Neurobiology and the New Science of Psychotherapy

Jeremy Holmes writes in this 2020 book: * Energy in FEP [Free Energy Principle] is not a physical phenomenon like heat, or electromagnetic radiation, but a superordinate explanatory category, akin to gravity (cf. Connolly & van Deventer, 2017), with both … Continue reading

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Why Do People Watch Livestreams?

I suspect the number one reason people watch is to connect. People don’t watch me because they care about me, they watch because they care about themselves and my livestream helps them better enjoy and understand their own lives. When … Continue reading

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How I Conquered My Relationship Insecurity

Tracy Chabala writes for The Fix: The pain prompted me to do some research on relationship insecurity—I had to know what the hell was wrong with me. That’s when I learned about attachment styles and the important role they play … Continue reading

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