Schwab's analysis is borne out by her personal and professional experience,
and by cases that have gained notoriety. When Robert Kirschner, senior
rabbi of Congregation Emanu-El in San Francisco, was accused in 1991
of harassing, exploiting and abusing female congregants, students and
an employee, the board of directors voted to keep the matter secret
for the sake of everyone involved, especially Kirschner's wife and children.
That is a disastrous mistake, says Schwab -- silence is what destroys
the rabbi's family. She interviewed Michele
Samit, author of the 1993 book "No Sanctuary: The True Story of a Rabbi's
Deadly Affair," about the murder of her friend Anita Green by a
hit man on Oct. 25, 1990, after she'd spent the night with Rabbi Steven
Jacobs. Green's abusive husband, Melvin, was convicted of the crime.
Jacobs' congregants in the San Fernando Valley concealed his affair
with Green while it was going on, and kept silent even after her murder.
"This is the same silence," writes Schwab, "that I and other women found/find
when we reported/report our experiences to rabbinic authorities." It
was silence, Samit believed, that killed Green and Carol Neulander.
The latter, wife of Rabbi Fred Neulander of Cherry Hill, N.J., was
murdered on Nov. 1, 1993 -- the very date on which her husband had promised
his mistress that he'd be free to marry her. He was convicted in November
2002 of hiring two hit men for the purpose. Neulander's philandering,
too, had been kept secret by his congregation until it was too late.
Emanu-El's board of directors erred again in recommending that Kirschner
return to his duties after a brief session of psychotherapy, according
to Schwab.
From
Kirkus Reviews: "At first, Anita was willing to be his slave,
but as she grew powerful (as president of her temple), she fell into an
affair with the temple's rabbi [Steven Jacobs], a practiced seducer whose
escapades were pointedly ignored by his big-money congregation."
Those of you who marched in the '60s for civil rights and against the
war in Vietnam know what exhilaration there is in walking with thousands
of people for a just cause. It is transformative.
I have always felt a certain kinship with those who march for dignity
and justice at great risk to their livelihood. So it is once again that
I have marched each day with the striking janitors who are fighting
for a mere $1-an-hour raise. They make a meager salary cleaning our
commodes and emptying our trash in Los Angeles high-rises. The mostly
Latino immigrant janitors face the same challenges as do coal miners
in Appalachia or sweatshop workers here and in New York and other workers
who are struggling to raise families on jobs that don't pay a living
wage.
Rabbi Steven Jacobs joins Jesse Jackson to address voters' concerns
in West Palm Beach.
While the nation watched and waited as the battle over the presidency
continued to unfold, two old friends met in Florida last week to try
to bring a resolution to the dispute over the ballots in West Palm Beach.
Rabbi Steven Jacobs of Kol Tikvah
in Woodland Hills and his longtime colleague, the Rev. Jesse Jackson,
spent the week after the election touring the state, attempting to bring
together what they called the disenfranchised voters of Florida's Black
and Jewish communities.
When I was a child growing up in Boston, my grandfather told me a story
of his friend's father and the persecution that he had experienced in
Russia which led him to come to America. When he was out teaching at
night, the Cossacks would pursue him and slash him with their sabers.
One night he was on the hill above his village with his Rabbi. As they
looked down, they could see the Cossacks riding down and killing some
of their Jewish brothers and sisters. I am told that my grandfather's
friend's father heard his Rabbi say, "I wish I were God." He asked "Do
you want to be God so you can change the bad to the good?" "No, I wouldn't
change anything," replied the Rabbi, "I want to be God so that I could
understand."
We have reached a period in the history of
this country where we must come to understand what is happening in our
lives.
When I was thirteen years old, there was a
nine year old child that I helped pull out of the ocean in Maine that
subsequently drowned and died. I asked my father "Why did God
make a world where terrible things happen? Why didn't God make a world
free of accidents, diseases and problems?" and my father said, "to learn
lessons." I didn't like that answer and I was told for a number
of years things like "that's life' or "to bring you closer to God."
Some were honest enough to say, "I don't know."
Tonight we gather together and we cannot answer
"that's life" and we cannot answer, "we don't know." Tonight we do know
certain things and we must follow the courageous prophetic tradition
of standing in the midst of our people and crying out "we have been
deceived." Tonight we gather so that we may understand.
Tonight we are reminded what one of our colleagues,
Bob Edgar, said when he wrote, "Oh Lord remind us that your prophets
never had a majority and never took a vote." This we understand.
"Remind us that you created the heavens and
earth. It was not created by Microsoft or Exxon or Wall Street or NASDAC."
This we understand.
"Remind us that there will be no surpluses
in our budgets as long as children are hungry, women are abused and
rats come out to eat the crust and bite babies." This we understand.
"Remind us that poverty is not an essential
ingredient upon which to build our economic system." This we understand.
As we begin our gathering for the Clergy Network
we stand together to organize, prioritize and strategize but never to
compromise on Your Will. This we must understand.
Rabbi Steven Jacobs of Kol Tikvah in Woodland Hills said he's urging
his congregation to be mindful during the "festival of lights" of all
the people who live in the darkness of poverty.
"We can't be so self-satisfied and give gifts while there's so many
around us who are in need," Jacobs said.
.............
WHEN RABBIS GO ASTRAY (Part 2 of 5): Victims of rabbinic sex abuse suffer
pain of communal denial
by Debra Nussbaum Cohen
Jewish Telegraphic Agency (New York)
Sep 19, 1996
In one highly publicized case, Michele Samit, who has not herself claimed
to have suffered from rabbinic sexual misconduct, says she was totally
vilified by her former community after she wrote a book about the relationship
between Anita Green and her rabbi, Steven Jacobs.
Anita Green was the president of Shir Chadash -- The New Reform Congregation
in Los Angeles, when she was murdered at point-blank range in 1990.
Her husband, Mel Green, was convicted of ordering the killing and is now
serving a life sentence without the possibility of parole.
Although Mel and Anita Green were separated at the time of her murder,
her affair with Jacobs began while she was still living with her husband,
according to Samit's book, "No Sanctuary: The True Story of a Rabbi's
Deadly Affair."
Mel Green was an angry, jealous and violent man who had long threatened
Anita, even in public, according to the book.
At Green's funeral, Jacobs, who had first denied but later reluctantly
admitted his relationship with her, eulogized her not as a rabbi talking
about his temple president, but as a lover, several people who were congregants
of Jacobs' at the time, said in telephone interviews.
In her book, Samit wrote of the eulogy: "The rabbi recalled `admiring
or just staring at her beautiful nails and her gentle hands; those hands,
her skin so very soft, so reassuring, those beautiful hands.'
"No one [in the congregation] said anything" about it, Samit said in a
recent interview, referring to what she believed was Jacob's inappropriate
language.
"The reaction of the congregation was nothing. Not even discussion there."
That's what convinced Samit that she had to leave the congregation which
had been her second home, and the rabbi who had been her lifelong spiritual
guide, she said.
She said she was the target of a smear campaign by Jacobs and was harassed
by the rabbi's supporters.
"People called me from the congregation and harangued me. They said, `You
egomaniacal whore, you think you're better than us. How could you destroy
such a wonderful man,'" said Samit in the interview.
"This was the most painful thing," she said. "Rabbi Jacobs was my hero.
I had him on such a pedestal. He Bat Mitzvahed me, married me, I baby-sat
his kids. We were so close."
Jacobs denied in a recent telephone interview that his relationship with
Green was an illicit affair.
"She was a dear friend, my temple president, and after the fact that she
was going through a divorce and I had already been divorced, there was
a romantic relationship."
He described Samit's book as "full of lies" and said some have accused
him of adultery because "people are angry when you achieve a lot in rabbinic
life."
"I would not be in the position and stay in the position if people didn't
know who I am," he said.
Samit said she believes that she and every other member of Jacobs' congregation
bear some responsibility for Anita Green's murder.
"There were signs to all of us that Anita was in danger and we ignored
them because we wouldn't dare cross our beloved rabbi," she said.
Another congregant, Michael Hirsh, outraged by his rabbi's behavior and
his community's response, wrote to the head of the Reform rabbinical association's
ethics committee in April 1993, charging Jacobs with violating the group's
ethics code and demanding that it take up Jacobs' behavior.
Rabbi Jeffrey Stiffman, then the head of the committee, wrote back to
Hirsch that Jacobs had agreed "to uphold all provisions of our Code of
Ethics," which requires rabbis "to adhere to an exemplary moral code"
and "to avoid even the appearance of sexual misconduct."
Hirsh responded to Stiffman with a letter saying that the action amounted
to nothing more than "a rabbinic consent decree" for Jacobs to do it all
over again.
"If there is a shanda (shame) here, it is not only in Jacobs' immoral
conduct, but in your organization's complicity in covering it up," wrote
Hirsch, a former investigative journalist and current television producer.
Jacobs remains the rabbi of Temple Kol Tikvah, the name adopted after
it merged with another synagogue.
Experts in clergy sexual abuse say the denial among congregants can be
dangerous because a rabbi can go on harassing and exploiting many congregants
for decades without any of them knowing that the others exist, forcing
each of them to bear the suffering alone.
And if a rabbi has sexually exploited one congregant, he almost always
has exploited several, Fortune said, without referring specifically to
any of the above-mentioned cases.
Fortune says she has worked with more than 3,500 cases of clergy sexual
misconduct in dozens of different religious denominations during a 15-year
period.
In the end, while the rabbinic perpetrators often move to another job
within their movements or even stay in their pulpits after a slap on the
wrist from their rabbinical organizations, it appears that the victims
often go away.
They often divorce themselves from any connection to the Jewish community
and, in some cases, go so far as to convert to another religion.
According to Fortune, denial of the problem is so pervasive because "none
of us wants this to be happening."
"There is long-term damage being done here we're going to be living with
for years,' she said, adding, "It doesn't have to be that bad if we respond
better."
2) PUNCH
A 'Perfect' Life Ends in Murder / Jewish community tight-mouthed, mad
about upcoming book
by LORI MOODY
Los Angeles Daily News
March 7, 1993
The San Francisco Chronicle
Anita Green had it all -- or seemed to. Big house in the suburb of Encino,
successful business, prominence as a community activist. At 42, she was
dynamic, attractive, caring, in the prime of her life.
And then she was dead, murdered in cold blood on a Thursday morning in
autumn 1990 by a stranger on a motorcycle who followed her red Corvette
and shot her when she parked in the lot outside her husband's business.
No one was safe anymore from the violence of Los Angeles, or so it seemed.
The shock of Anita Green's murder hit hardest in the San Fernando Valley's
Jewish community.
Green was one of its leaders. She had helped found a temple, Shir Chadash-The
New Reform Congregation, in Encino, and overcome numerous obstacles to
try and get a new temple built despite neighborhood opposition in suburban
Woodland Hills. To her friends, she was the perfect friend with the perfect
life.
But in the days after her death, the veneer of perfection began to crack.
Not everything was as it seemed. Lacking evidence that would lead to the
motorcycle assassin, police turned to Anita Green's friends and family
for information about her life, clues that might lead them to her killer.
Early on, they suspected Green's husband, Melvin, a 55-year-old tax consultant.
Their nine-year marriage had hit the skids several months before her murder.
Close friends said he was an abusive husband, verbally and psychologically.
Police learned that Anita had grown afraid of Melvin during the months
that they continued to work together after separating. They learned that
she was having an affair with her rabbi, and that Melvin was jealous.
After a six-month investigation, Melvin Green was arrested for the murder
of his wife. He eventually was convicted of murder for hire and sentenced
to life in prison, insisting all the way that he was innocent.
The long months of gossip and debate about the murder of Anita Green came
to intrigue a member of the Shir Chadash congregation, Michele Samit,
a free-lance writer and two-time Emmy award winner, one for an investigative
series on food stamp abuse, the other for a documentary on advertising.
Her fascination grew out of her own preconception: "Middle-age Jewish
men do not murder."
Her probing brought her into the center of controversy at Shir Chadash,
where many members felt that nothing would be served by dredging up the
past. Samit and her family eventually left the temple, but she persisted
with her book, "No Sanctuary," scheduled to be published in June by Birch
Lane Press.
"I felt that it would show people how thin that veneer of safety that
we've created had really grown to be, that you're really not safe anywhere
you are, and so many people have so many things to hide," Samit said.
Michele Samit said that she was not prepared for the backlash that she
encountered among the 10-year-old congregation of 550 families at Shir
Chadash and the questions she asked about the relationship between Anita
Green and Rabbi Steven B. Jacobs.
"Had I known what I found out, not only about (Jacobs), about Anita, about
Melvin, they could have offered me $10 million to do this book and I wouldn't
have taken it," said Samit, 33, a Woodland Hills resident. "I burned too
many bridges to my past. In part of the community, I'm considered a pariah."
Jacobs, who became the synagogue's spiritual leader in 1984, told the
Daily News in a prepared statement that his relationship with Anita Green
was personal. "I won't comment on it now," he said. "I have retained a
lawyer, and when we see the book we will review it carefully, and if anything
untrue is said about me, we will take appropriate action."
Larry Seewack, a former president of Shir Chadash, said, "I hold (Samit)
in such contempt."
He said he considered the 53-year-old rabbi a good and trusted friend
whose life outside the synagogue was his own business.
Sylvia Holste-Lilie, a former secretary at the synagogue, said she was
concerned that the book would tarnish Anita Green's image.
"I think people know that the rabbi and Anita were very intimate friends
at a time when they were both legally separated," she said. "I don't think
that's a big revelation. It's an upsetting topic. I think people will
be concerned about Anita's reputation."
Phyllis Baltin of the Van Nuys area of Los Angeles, a former synagogue
member and close friend of Anita Green, is among those who believe the
story should be made public.
"I think the Jewish community in particular, I think they need to know
they're not immune," Baltin said. "We're not any different from anybody
else, and these things do happen and there is abuse in every form, spousal
abuse and the pain that Anita went through and what it did to her. . .
. We all make mistakes, and we all do things wrong. Nobody has to pay
with their life."
Anita Green, the mother of a son and president of the synagogue, was regarded
highly in the Jewish community, Samit said.
She led efforts to build a permanent facility for Shir Chadash-The New
Reform Congregation on 17 1/2 acresar Pierce College, helped develop the
congregation's Hebrew school and started a youth group. The congregation
still meets in a Woodland Hills church.
"People adored Anita," Samit said. "There was no one who could work harder
for a cause. She was very committed. Anita was such a good friend. There's
nothing she wouldn't do for her friends and nothing she would not do for
the temple."
Baltin, who first met Anita Green on Feb. 9, 1971, the day a 6.5 earthquake
rocked the San Fernando Valley, said she was a vivacious woman with an
intensely private side.
"She could have a lot of fun," Baltin said. "She was always put together
so that the outside shell never showed the turmoil underneath. The manicure
was perfect, the makeup was perfect, the clothes, everything had to be
just so, and you never knew what was really going on in her mind."
Anita and her second husband, Melvin, appeared to be the perfect couple,
Baltin said. "From what I saw as an outsider, when they were together,
they were perfect," she said. "Then I saw it begin to just crumble, very
quickly."
After Anita left Melvin and moved out of the house in the summer of 1990,
Baltin said she noticed a transformation in her friend. Melvin Green told
police that Anita filed for divorce after she moved out. "All of a sudden,
the shorts, the cutoff sweatshirt and the hair was different and the makeup
wasn't quite so severe. She was finally emerging into herself," Baltin
said.
On Oct. 25, 1990, Anita Green parked her red Corvette behind Melvin's
North Hollywood office. Although they had been separated three months,
she still worked from her home as his office manager, going to his business
for her paychecks. She was gunned down by a man on a motorcycle and died
two days later at North Hollywood Medical Center.
Jacobs told police that Anita Green spent the night at his house before
the shooting and left before he got up, according to the police report.
Jacobs, who married the Greens, told police that Melvin accused him of
sleeping with Anita but said that was not true, according to the police
report.
However, when asked during cross-examination by Melvin Green's attorney
whether he had told a police detective that he had an "intimate relationship"
with Anita Green, Jacobs replied, "Correct," according to trial transcripts.
He testified that he was going through a divorce when he was dating her.
Police arrested Melvin Green on April 10, 1991, on suspicion of murder,
with special circumstance of murder for financial gain. He was convicted
on March 4, 1992, and sentenced to life in prison without parole in the
murder for hire.
The conviction is being appealed on several grounds, including no direct
evidence linking Melvin Green to the crime, said Green's attorney, Bob
Gerstein of Santa Monica.
"I think he was principally found guilty by the jury based on what they
thought of him as a person rather than the facts of the event," Gerstein
said.
Anita Green told her beautician that she was terrified of her husband,
the beautician testified.
Deputy District Attorney Kent Cahill said no evidence showing that Melvin
Green had physically abused his wife was presented during the murder trial.
"If you are talking about (abuse) verbally and psychologically, there
was lots of evidence of that, screaming at her, reducing her to tears,"
Cahill said.
Samit said she was not aware at the time that her friend Anita was miserable
in her marriage. Samit said she believed Anita Green married for money
and remained in the marriage for money.
"Anita didn't do anything horrible," she said. "She did what a lot of
women do, she married somebody and stayed in a marriage for money. How
many women do that and nobody ever finds out about it? I mean, I'm sure
there's dozens and hundreds and hundreds."
Samit said she does not lay blame in her book.
"I don't ever point my finger, but I do feel the silence surrounding Mel's
abusiveness toward Anita -- some people knew -- and the silence around
the rumored relationship that people whispered about secretly between
the rabbi and Anita, I do think the silence was partially responsible
(for her death)," she said.
The silence still prevails, Samit said.
Los Angeles police detective Ray Hernandez, the lead investigator in Anita
Green's murder, said many people cooperated during the murder investigation.
"After the trial, and after the sentencing, everybody was relieved, and
then the sentiment shifted when knowledge was out that Michele Samit was
writing a book about the trial," he said. "Many were personable and confidential
people, and they feared it was going to go public."
Baltin said she understands why people are upset with the book. "You try
to keep your shames under your hat," she said. "It's truly a large part
of the Jewish faith -- if you ignore something, it didn't happen."
Samit said she would add chapters to the book in the event of another
arrest.
"The police are actively investigating some of the information she has
uncovered," said detective Mike Coffey of the Los Angeles Police Department's
North Hollywood Division.
Samit said the situation is distressing. "I really believe if everybody
had lived by the commandments of Judaism, if everybody had followed the
rules and not broken any rules, Anita would still be alive," Samit said.
"I thought about it for a long time. Our commandments really give us our
sanctuary. My book's title is `No Sanctuary,' but if we follow the laws,
we really can live safer lives."
3)
L.A. LIFE
LETTERS TO L.A. LIFE INCENSED BY GREEN STORY
February 28, 1993
Los Angeles Daily News
The article about the tragic death of Anita Green and how an ex-member
of the Shir Chadash New Reform Congregation was going to capitalize on
Green's murder and her personal life prior to her death by writing a book
about her incensed me. (L.A. Life, Feb. 21).
To involve Rabbi Steven Jacobs of the New Reform Congregation in the Daily
News story about an upcoming book by an unknown writer of apparent sleaze
is not what your newspaper should be about, in my opinion.
The rabbi is and the late Anita Green was human; both being pillars of
the Valley Jewish community. They do not deserve to be written about in
a feature article as if the Daily News was a tabloid attracting readers
with sensationalism.
- Elaine Skaist
Encino
4)
500 TURN OUT TO MOURN SLAIN TEMPLE FOUNDER
Beth Laski Daily News Staff Writer
October 31, 1990
Los Angeles Daily News
Nearly 500 people gathered Tuesday to mourn the death of Anita Green,
a founder and president of Shir Chadash-The New Reform Congregation in
Encino who was shot last week in what police called an intentional killing.
"This is not a time of anger, there is plenty of it. . . . This is not
a time for accusations, there are plenty of them," said Shir Chadash Rabbi
Steven B. Jacobs during the service. "This is a time to honor our incredible
Anita. To let go and cry and experience the strength of our community."
Green, 42, of Encino was shot at close range in the chest Thursday morning
- possibly by a motorcyclist who followed her red Corvette to the parking
lot behind her estranged husband's North Hollywood tax-consulting business,
police said. She died Saturday at North Hollywood Medical Center, police
said.
5)
News
November 1, 1990
Los Angeles Daily News
..
Reward offered in murder
City officials and leaders of an Encino Jewish congregation joined forces
Wednesday to offer a $30,000 reward for information about those responsible
for last week's murder of Anita Green, a founder of Shir Chadash - The
New Reform Congregation.
Green, 42, was shot at close range in the chest a week ago while sitting
in her car in a parking lot behind her estranged husband's North Hollywood
office. She died Saturday at North Hollywood Medical Center, officials
said.
There have been no arrests in connection with Green's death and no motive
has been determined, said Los Angeles police Detective Mike Coffey.
City Councilwoman Joy Picus said she was asked by police officials to
offer the reward. Rabbi Steven B. Jacobs of the congregation matched the
$15,000 offered by Picus.
Source: - Daily News
...
6)
REWARD IS OFFERED IN SLAYING
Beth Laski Daily News Staff Writer
November 2, 1990
Los Angeles Daily News
City officials joined police and religious leaders Thursday in offering
a $30,000 reward for help in solving last week's slaying of an Encino
community leader.
LAPD Detective Ray Hernandez said the only three people who knew the victim's
whereabouts at the time of the shooting were Melvin Green, Gena Siguenza,
Anita Green's hairdresser, and Rabbi Steven B. Jacobs of Shir Chadash
- The New Reform Congregation in Encino, which Anita Green helped found
and served as president until her death.
8)
MAN CONVICTED OF CONTRACTING WIFE'S MURDER
Rene Lynch Daily News Staff Writer
March 5, 1992
Los Angeles Daily News
Though never suspected of firing the shots that killed Anita Green, her
estranged husband was convicted Wednesday of her murder, a crime prosecutors
contend he arranged because she posed a threat to his tax consulting business.
Melvin Green, 55, is expected to be sentenced to life in prison without
parole for murder for financial gain in the shooting death of Anita Green,
42, a prominent Jewish leader slain as she parked her red Corvette behind
her husband's North Hollywood office on Oct. 25, 1990.
Rabbi Steven B. Jacobs said members of the congregation have not forgotten
her.
"She was a wonderful leader, everyone who knew her loved her," Jacobs
said. "All I can say is that the justice system has worked. We are glad
it is over because when a death or a case like this is personalized, it
is always difficult."
The Greens, who had been married nine years, were living in separate Encino
homes at the time of the shooting. Anita Green still worked for her husband
as an office manager, but worked out of her home and only went to the
business to pick up her paychecks.
The gunman in the slaying has never been identified.
Evidence against Green included a witness who said Green often bragged
about being able to commit the perfect murder, and once asked him how
much money he would want to kill Anita Green.
Defense attorneys claimed their client is only guilty of having a bizarre
sense of humor.
But prosecutors argued that Anita Green could have posed problems for
her husband had she lived. She knew that his business had been investigated
by the IRS and that he had a fake diploma, Cahill told jurors.
Green had a Jackson State University diploma for an MBA in taxation, but
the Mississippi school, which has long-since changed its name, has never
issued master's degrees in the subject, Cahill argued.
Defense attorneys claimed the couple's divorce proceedings were amicable,
and prenuptial agreements would have prevented disputes over property.
Green's wealth, which authorities have estimated as close to $2 million,
would not have been greatly sapped by the breakup, they argued.
Eugenia Siguenza, who was Anita Green's beautician, said she had said
the day before her death that she feared her husband's temper and hesitated
going to his office to get a paycheck.
Cahill said Anita Green was picking up the check when she was shot by
a motorcyclist on Oxnard Street in an what prosecutors described as an
"ambush assassination."
9)
L.A. LIFE
SHAKEN FAITH RELIGIOUS COMMUNITY, CLOSE FRIENDS UNSETTLED BY BOOK ABOUT
WOMAN'S MURDER
Lori Moody Daily News Staff Writer
February 21, 1993
Los Angeles Daily News
Early on, they suspected Green's husband, Melvin, a 55-year-old tax consultant.
Their nine-year marriage had hit the skids several months before her murder.
Close friends said he was an abusive husband, verbally and psychologically.
Police learned that Anita had grown afraid of Melvin during the months
they continued to work together after separating. They learned that she
was having an affair with her rabbi, and that Melvin was jealous.
After a six-month investigation, Melvin Green was arrested for the murder
of his wife. He eventually was convicted of murder for hire and sentenced
to life in prison, insisting all the way that he was innocent.
The long months of gossip and debate about the murder of Anita Green came
to intrigue a member of the Shir Chadash congregation, Michele Samit,
a free-lance writer and two-time Emmy award winner, one for an investigative
series on food stamp abuse, the other for a documentary on advertising.
Her fascination grew out of her own preconception: "Middle-age Jewish
men do not murder."
Her probing brought her into the center of controversy at Shir Chadash,
where many members felt that nothing would be served by dredging up the
past. Samit and her family eventually left the temple, but she persisted
with her book, "No Sanctuary," scheduled to be published in June by Birch
Lane Press.
"I felt that it would show people how thin that veneer of safety that
we've created had really grown to be, that you're really not safe anywhere
you are and so many people have so many things to hide," Samit said.
Michele Samit said she was not prepared for the backlash that she encountered
among the 10-year-old congregation of 550 families at Shir Chadash and
the questions she asked about the relationship between Anita Green and
Rabbi Steven B. Jacobs.
"Had I known what I found out, not only about (Jacobs), about Anita, about
Melvin, they could have offered me $10 million to do this book and I wouldn't
have taken it," said Samit.
"I burned too many bridges to my past," said Samit, 33, a Woodland Hills
resident. "In part of the community, I'm considered a pariah."
Jacobs, who became the synagogue's spiritual leader in 1984, told the
Daily News in a prepared statement that his relationship with Anita Green
was personal.
"I won't comment on it now," he said. "I have retained a lawyer, and when
we see the book we will review it carefully, and if anything untrue is
said about me, we will take appropriate action."
Larry Seewack, a former president of Shir Chadash, said, "I hold (Samit)
in such contempt."
He said he considered the 53-year-old rabbi a good and trusted friend
whose life outside the synagogue was his own business.
"Here's a man who administers not only to the general community, but to
500 families on a 24-hour a day basis," Seewack said. "Why he has to be
subjected to this, I don't know. I don't know what he did to deserve this."
Sylvia Holste-Lilie, a former secretary at the synagogue, said she was
concerned that the book would tarnish Anita Green's image.
"I think people know that the rabbi and Anita were very intimate friends
at a time when they were both legally separated," she said. "I don't think
that's a big revelation. It's an upsetting topic. I think people will
be concerned about Anita's reputation."
Marcia Cayne, another founding member of the synagogue, said she hopes
the community will look upon the book as cast in the same mold as a supermarket
tabloid.
"Nothing she could say in the book would give any credibility to any rumor,
none at all," Cayne said. "As far as I'm concerned, both Anita and the
rabbi conducted themselves in a professional manner."
The Jewish community could only be hurt by the book, she said.
"It's not healthy for any community to be looked upon as anything less
than moral," said Cayne, a Woodland Hills resident.
Phyllis Baltin of Van Nuys, a former synagogue member and close friend
of Anita Green, is among those who believe the story should be made public.
"I think the Jewish community in particular, I think they need to know
they're not immune," Baltin said. "We're not any different from anybody
else and these things do happen and that there is abuse in every form,
spousal abuse and the pain that Anita went through and what it did to
her. . . . We all make mistakes and we all to do things wrong. Nobody
has to pay with their life."
Anita Green, the mother of a son and president of the synagogue, was regarded
highly in the Jewish community, Samit said.
She led efforts to build a permanent facility for Shir Chadash-The New
Reform Congregation on 17-1/2 acres near Pierce College, helped develop
the congregation's Hebrew school and started a youth group. The congregation
still meets in a Woodland Hills church.
"People adored Anita," Samit said. "There was no one who could work harder
for a cause. She was very committed. Anita was such a good friend. There's
nothing she wouldn't do for her friends and nothing she would not do for
the temple."
Baltin, who first met Anita Green on Feb. 9, 1971, the day a 6.5 earthquake
rocked the San Fernando Valley, said she was a vivacious woman with an
intensely private side.
"She could have a lot of fun," Baltin said. "She was always put together
so that the outside shell never showed the turmoil underneath. The manicure
was perfect, the makeup was perfect, the clothes, everything had to be
just so, and you never knew what was really going on in her mind."
Anita and her second husband, Melvin, appeared to be the perfect couple,
Baltin said.
"From what I saw as an outsider, when they were together, they were perfect,"
she said. "Then I saw it begin to just crumble, very quickly.
"In the beginning, she always put up a front to me," Baltin said. "She
would say I had to go see her big new house, and all the stuff he bought
her and everything else. But I could read between the lines."
After Anita left Melvin and moved out of the house in the summer of 1990,
Baltin said she noticed a transformation in her friend. Melvin Green told
police that Anita filed for divorce after she moved out.
"All of a sudden, the shorts, the cutoff sweatshirt and the hair was different
and the makeup wasn't quite so severe. She was finally emerging into herself,"
Baltin said.
On Oct. 25, 1990, Anita Green parked her red Corvette behind Melvin's
North Hollywood office. Although they had been separated three months,
she still worked from her home as his office manager, going to his business
for her paychecks.
She was gunned down by a man on a motorcycle and died two days later at
North Hollywood Medical Center.
Jacobs told police that Anita Green spent the night at his house before
the shooting and left before he got up, according to the police report.
Jacobs, who married the Greens, told police that Melvin accused him of
sleeping with Anita but said that was not true, according to the police
report.
However, when asked during cross-examination by Melvin Green's attorney
whether he had told a police detective that he had an "intimate relationship"
with Anita Green, Jacobs replied, "Correct," according to trial transcripts.
He testified that he was going through a divorce when he was dating her.
Police arrested Melvin Green April 10, 1991, on suspicion of murder with
special circumstance of murder for financial gain. He was convicted March
4, 1992, and sentenced to life in prison without parole in the murder
for hire.
The conviction is being appealed on several grounds, including no direct
evidence linking Melvin Green to the crime, said Green's attorney, Bob
Gerstein of Santa Monica.
"I think he was principally found guilty by the jury based on what they
thought of him as a person rather than the facts of the event," Gerstein
said.
Melvin Green was the type of person who frequently tape recorded his thoughts,
said Arthur Alexander, co-counsel in Green's defense during the trial.
"The police hold years and years of these thoughts of his," Alexander
said.
Anita Green told her beautician that she was terrified of her husband,
the beautician testified.
Deputy District Attorney Kent Cahill said no evidence showing that Melvin
Green had physically abused his wife was presented during the murder trial.
"If you are talking about (abuse) verbally and psychologically, there
was lots of evidence of that, screaming at her, reducing her to tears,"
Cahill said.
Samit said she was not aware at the time that her friend Anita was miserable
in her marriage. Samit said she believed Anita Green married for money
and remained in the marriage for money.
"Anita didn't do anything horrible," she said. "She did what a lot of
women do, she married somebody and stayed in a marriage for money. How
many women do that and nobody ever finds out about it? I mean I'm sure
there's dozens and hundreds and hundreds."
Samit said she does not lay blame in her book.
"I don't ever point my finger, but I do feel the silence surrounding Mel's
abusiveness toward Anita, some people knew, and the silence around the
rumored relationship that people whispered about secretly between the
rabbi and Anita, I do think the silence was partially responsible (for
her death)," she said.
The silence still prevails, Samit said.
"So many people in the temple community were appalled at me that I could
even consider writing a book about it because it was airing the temple's
dirty laundry, the rabbi's dirty laundry and that it really wouldn't serve
any purpose, (and) why would I want to do that," Samit said. "That just
intrigues me when people don't want you to write a story."
Others, too, noticed the reluctance of synagogue members to cooperate
with Samit.
Los Angeles police detective Ray Hernandez, the lead investigator in Anita
Green's murder, said many people cooperated during the murder investigation.
"After the trial, and after the sentencing, everybody was relieved and
then the sentiment shifted when knowledge was out that Michele Samit was
writing a book about the trial," he said. "Many were personable and confidential
people, and they feared it was going to go public."
Baltin said she understands why people are upset with the book.
"You try to keep your shames under your hat," she said. "It's truly a
large part of the Jewish faith, if you ignore something, it didn't happen."
Samit said she would add chapters to the book in the event of another
arrest.
"The police are actively investigating some of the information she has
uncovered," said detective Mike Coffey of the Los Angeles Police Department's
North Hollywood Division.
Samit said the situation is distressing.
"I really believe if everybody had lived by the commandments of Judaism,
if everybody had followed the rules and not broken any rules, Anita would
still be alive," Samit said. "I thought about it for a long time. Our
commandments really give us our sanctuary. My book's title is "No Sanctuary,"
but if we follow the laws, we really can live safer lives."
Holste-Lilie, the former synagogue secretary, said she doesn't think anything
useful will come out of the book. But she believes the members will survive.
"It's a very close-knit and a very dynamic congregation," she said. "They
are a very strong organization that I'm sure will prevail (over) any problems
caused by the book."
Events surrounding the slaying of Anita Green
This is the sequence of events surrounding Anita Green's murder and the
conviction of her husband, Melvin Green:
Oct. 25, 1990: Anita Green, 42, of Encino, was shot at close range by
a man on a motorcycle outside her estranged husband's office in North
Hollywood.
Oct. 27, 1990: Anita Green died at 3:35 p.m. at North Hollywood Medical
Center.
April 10, 1991: Tax consultant Melvin Green, 55, was arrested at his business
in connection with his wife's slaying.
April 11, 1991: Melvin Green pleaded not guilty to murder for financial
gain.
May 10, 1991: Melvin Green was ordered to stand trial on charges he contracted
the killing of his wife.
March 4, 1992: Melvin Green was convicted of his wife's killing.
May 27, 1992: Melvin Green, continuing to maintain his innocence, is sentenced
to life in prison without parole.
.............
In her book No
Sanctuary, Michele Samit writes that rabbi Jacobs that "always
preferred women who were needy and in pain..." (pg 10)
He was a short man, a little over five feet three inches without his
shoe lifts...
He was, and had always been, immensely appealing to women. He was hard
to resist, and Anita was delighted that she hadn't, once she found out
how tender he was in the bedroom. She had never known lovemaking like
this. (pg 11)
........
His second ex-wife, Miriam Jacobs, later described the rabbi's reactions:
"After services, he loves hearing how wonderful he was. He lives
for that. He doesn't want to hear how his sermons inspired someone, but
rather how he did. His ego gets all swollen, and he struts around the
temple like a cocktail-lounge singer."
He often lavished attention on women congregants, and at times he appeared
to get carried away. Women found him charming, and his attentiveness
toward them did not go unnoticed. The vulnerable ones were like putty
in his hands. They hungered for the rabbi's approval and went out of
their way to secure his attentions. (pg 14)
By 1983, Rabbi Jacobs had been the controversial rabbi of Temple Judea
for fourteen years....
Throughout the years, there were rumors that Rabbi Jacobs was sleeping
with his congregants....
Temple Judea's leadership found it difficult to keep assistant rabbis
and religious school directors on staff. It seemed that whenever another
temple leader became popular, Rabbi Jacobs would grow jealous. A power
struggle would begin, and Rabbi Jacobs fought his battles to win. He
had a terrible temper... (pg 16)
One Los Angeles rabbi described Steven Jacobs's followers. "They
were all in love with Rabbi Jacobs. Sometimes we jokingly referred to
him amongst ourselves as the Jim Jones of the rabbinate." (pg.
114)
...Rabbi Jacobs [October 1990] did not mind breaking the rules as long
as he made someone feel good in the process. After concluding [Yom Kippur]
services, Steven and Anita went up to their room. ...Anita later expressed
regret to Phyllis, at their last lunch together, that she and the rabbi
had not been able to make love that day because Steven's children were
staying in the adjoining room. (pg 131)
[Detective Ray] Hernandez noticed a pair of airline tickets were made
out to Rabbi Steven B. Jacobs and Anita M. Green. He turned to face
the waiting rabbi. "Were you planning a trip together?"
"Uh, yes we were," Rabbi Jacobs answered nervously.
Wanting to know if Mel's accusations had any validity, the detective
pushed further. "Why? Are you two lovers?"
Rabbi Jacobs looked away as he gave the same answer he had earlier
provided. "We're only good friends. I'm the rabbi, she's my president.
We take a few trips together, always on temple business." He began
to run his fingers through his hair. His face reddened.
Hernandez: "Rabbi, you're still a suspect. You realize that, don't
you? You were the last person seen with her."
Rabbi Jacobs recoiled, visibly appalled. "Just who do you think
you are? Do you really think I could be responsible for an act as horrible
as this? I'm a rabbi. I could never hurt anyone."
The hardened detective wasn't about to let up because the rabbi was
getting uncomfortable. Ray hated that Jacobs had the gall to hide behind
the cloak of the clergy.
Ray asked him, "Did you ever have sex with Anita Green?"
The rabbi turned red. He was very angry and appeared to be forcing
himself to remain calm.
"Well, yes...on just a couple of occasions. Maybe two times or
something like that," the rabbi whispered softly.
"Did you have sex the night she stayed at your house? Um, let's
see, Wednesday night, the night before she was shot?"
Rabbi Jacobs did not answer right away. He looked defeated. Slowly
he nodded his head, finally replying, "Uh, yes. I suppose we did.
But only had sex about two times. She was already separated and I'm
divorced. We were two adults, just beginning a relationship. I know
nothing about what happened to her. Really."
By now, Hernandez didn't believe anything Jacobs said.
"He's a lot less arrogant than when he got here," Ray said
[Detective] Coffey as they watched the rabbi exit the apartment. "He
looks a hell of a lot older too. Probably thinks he'll lose his rabbiship..."
(pg 176-179)
When he arrived home the rabbi was upset. He consulted with a few temple
members about hiring a lawyer. They told him not to, yet. Then the rabbi
called in his political connections. They were sorry, but they couldn't
help. (pg. 180)
As the rabbi watched his followers stream into the church's sanctuary,
Ray Hernandez knew he was probably praying that his congregation would
stand by him. It appeared that they would, for now, more than ever,
the congregants needed to be together to experience the power of community.
Jacobs was their leader. They needed his spiritual guidance to help
make sense of this tragedy. Ray had seen it before. He called it the
"Jimmy Swaggart phenomenon." For these people, no explanations
were needed. (pg. 184)
What people remembered most vividly about the funeral was the shocking
tone of the rabbi's sermon. It was obvious that Rabbi Jacobs's moving
speech was not just a eulogy but a passionate memory of a lover now
gone. (pg. 190)
...Rabbi Jacobs married Miriam Leah [a convert to Judaism], formerly
known as Mary Louise, in May 1991, less than a year after Anita's tragic
death. [Steven left her a year later and they divorced.] (pg 166)
There was a story circulating around the Valley that the reason Rabbi
Jacobs had married so quickly after Anita's murder was because he needed
a "beard." (pg. 237)
[Defense attorney Gerry] Chaleff...was now getting angry. This was
a man of the cloth on the stand and he had sworn to tell the truth.
Chaleff expected him to do so. "Do you recall telling Detective
Hernandez that you and she were having an intimate relationship?"
"Um, I don't recall," the rabbi said, and then added, "At
the moment, I probably could have said that. It would not be unusual."
Rabbi Jacobs slumped down in his chair. It he could have crawled out
of the courtroom, he most certainly would have.
"That would have been the truth, right?"
"Correct." (pg. 275-276)
Chaleff recalled a visibly shaken Steven Jacobs as his first witness.
The last twenty-four hours had been particularly unnerving for the rabbi,
and his discomfort showed. After spending a long night avoiding Miriam's
questions, the rabbi was not as successful at avoiding the papers',
which once again linked him directly to Anita and indirectly to the
husband who was accused of murdering her. During his testimony, the
rabbi was somewhat testier than he had been the day before. Perhaps
that was why many on the jury decided that they did not trust him. (pg.
283)
After the trial, Miriam Jacobs said: "I asked him [Steven] questions,
and he got angrier and angrier at me. He told me that he had never loved
Anita and that it was just a sexual thing. He said that Anita threw
herself at him and that he did not want to make her feel worse by rejecting
her. But I kept asking questions, and he did not like that. He could
not control my questions anymore. Pretty soon he left me."
Miriam and Steven Jacobs's divorce was bitter. They continued to live
in the same house for many months. Finally, Miriam moved out, on Yom
Kippur 1992, while the rabbi was at services. She claimed to have removed
all the shoe lifts from his shoes the night before. She said, "It
was my way of telling him to find another way to elevate himself before
the congregation." (pg. 332-333)
Shir Chadash became Kol Tikvah in 1993 after merging with another floundering
Woodland Hill synagogue, Temple Emet.
When Michele's daughter had her Bat Mitzvah at Masada in 1997, a longtime
congregant of Steven Jacobs ran after Michele shouting, "If my 15-year
old daughter has to learn about sex, I would rather it was with rabbi
Jacobs than anyone else."