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My New Writing On Dennis
Prager
10/13/03
First line in Dennis Prager's interview with Johnathan Chait, editor
of The New Republic.
Dennis: "Let me tell you about me. I've subscribed to TNR
for more than 35 years."
Sgil46: There was a certain smarminess about chait's delivery
that DP was too polite to comment upon. That's one of the things
that his "good" host behavior works against. Why not say "why the
smug delivery?" Is your enjoyment of schadenfreude so immense you
can't contain yourself on national radio? That's the kind of problem
we witness on national TV on a daily basis whenever a conservative
or even a non-political but popular figure get in a tight position.
Aren't you a little embarrassed?"
DP on Rush Limbaugh's addiction to pain killers: What Rush did
was not immoral, it was illegal. It's a tragedy. Rush had a failed
back surgery. Unsurprisingly, he became addicted to pain killers.
When you're a conservative, and you do something personally inconsistent
with conservative ideals, you're tagged as a hypocrite. Liberals
don't stand for personal standards, thus they can't be called hypocrites.
If Howard Stern were hooked on painkillers, nobody would say he
was a hypocrite.
If Rush spent his time attacking people addicted to painkillers,
he'd be a hypocrite. There's no comparison between heroin and painkillers.
What Rush did was unwise. He should've gone public with it. It
would've been a good cause for him to take up.
How do you work for someone for four years (Rush's housekeeper),
and then snitch on him? She must've sold out for money.
I read the Newsweek
cover story and felt sorry for Rush. He leads a lonely life.
10/3/03
Rush Limbaugh Was Right
Donovan McNabb isn't a great quarterback, and the media do overrate
him because he is black.
Allen Barra writes on
Slate.com:
If Limbaugh were a more astute analyst, he would have been even
harsher and said, "Donovan McNabb is barely a mediocre quarterback."
But other than that, Limbaugh pretty much spoke the truth. Limbaugh
lost his job for saying in public what many football fans and
analysts have been saying privately for the past couple of seasons.
Limbaugh is being excoriated for making race an issue in the
NFL. This is hypocrisy. I don't know of a football writer who
didn't regard the dearth of black NFL quarterbacks as one of the
most important issues in the late '80s and early '90s. (The topic
really caught fire after 1988, when Doug Williams of the Washington
Redskins became the first black quarterback to win a Super Bowl.)
So far, no black quarterback has been able to dominate a league
in which the majority of the players are black. To pretend that
many of us didn't want McNabb to be the best quarterback in the
NFL because he's black is absurd. To say that we shouldn't root
for a quarterback to win because he's black is every bit as nonsensical
as to say that we shouldn't have rooted for Jackie Robinson to
succeed because he was black.
Consequently, it is equally absurd to say that the sports media
haven't overrated Donovan McNabb because he's black. I'm sorry
to have to say it; he is the quarterback for a team I root for.
Instead of calling him overrated, I wish I could be admiring his
Super Bowl rings. But the truth is that I and a great many other
sportswriters have chosen for the past few years to see McNabb
as a better player than he has been because we want him to be.
Rush Limbaugh didn't say Donovan McNabb was a bad quarterback
because he is black. He said that the media have overrated McNabb
because he is black, and Limbaugh is right. He didn't say anything
that he shouldn't have said, and in fact he said things that other
commentators should have been saying for some time now. I should
have said them myself. I mean, if they didn't hire Rush Limbaugh
to say things like this, what they did they hire him for? To talk
about the prevent defense?
Dennis Prager says: The liberals are lying about what Rush said
and the non-liberals are not. There is nothing Rush said that was
racist. Limbaugh's comment was about the news media who do over-rate
McNabb because he is black.
About 99% of the sports columns fulminate again Limbaugh. These
sportswriters think alike, talk alike, write alike.
Do you know why the two black guys on with Limbaugh on ESPN didn't
react? Because they didn't have a problem with it. They probably
thought it was true. Boy, are these two black guys (Michael Irvin,
) getting flack for not being tribal enough. For not thinking the
same way because of their skin color.
10/2/03
William Morris Drops John Connolly's Arnold Book
Nikki
Finke writes for the LA Weekly:
As the L.A. Weekly first reported, New York–based freelance journalist
John Connolly was planning to shop his book proposal about Ah-nuld
right after the October 7 election. Connolly, author of that infamous
Premiere magazine profile of Schwarzenegger that alleged moral turpitude
and sexual harassment, said that William Morris’ Mel Berger was
his agent for the project.
On Tuesday evening, Connolly said he’d just received a panicky
call from Berger who seemed alarmed that the project was suddenly
receiving premature publicity. That day, not only had Connolly told
Berger he’d talked about the book to the Weekly, but a blogger had
written that the William Morris Agency (WMA) was representing it.
However, Connolly maintains that when he went to bed on Tuesday
night, Berger was still the book’s agent.
What a difference 12 hours can make.
On Wednesday morning, the Weekly received a call from Chris Petrikin,
spokesman for WMA, saying Berger was not representing Connolly’s
Arnold book. Quoting Berger, Petrikin said the agent who had represented
Connolly years ago passed on the current project between 4 and 6
p.m. EST on Tuesday and had delivered the bad news to Connolly during
the same time frame.
Nikki
Finke writes further here
LAT's
investigation of Arnold turns up six women who say he groped and
humiliated them
Dennis Prager reacted with retching to the Times investigation:
In the arena in which Arnold moved, this behavior is the norm. Four
of the women did not give their names. They were afraid of coming
forward because there might be retribution in Hollywood. Does anyone
believe that if you come out in Hollywood against a Republican,
there will be retribution against you?
Who's going to be hard on you? Barbra Streisand? Robert Alter?
If you say Republicans have talk radio, that's fair. We admit it.
The Democrats have the national newspapers like The New York Times,
The Los Angeles Times, and TV news.
It's so transparent that the Times does not want Schwarzenegger
elected. Now they give it a three-column headline. That women come
forward a few days before the election, makes it all suspicious.
Did the LA Times put on the front page that Cruz Bustamente said
"nigger" in a public speech? And I've said that disqualifies
him. And I think that is worse [than what Arnold purportedly did].
The LA Times looks like a Democratic party rag sheet. You're stupid.
It's so predictable. You look like another wing of the Democratic
party.
Three columns on a breast was touched in 1975. Look at the headline:
"Women Say Schwarzenegger Groped, Humiliated Them"
It's the worst possible headline they could think of. One woman
said Arnold humiliated her.
There's infinitely more forgiveness in the news media for what
liberals do than what conservatives do.
I hope more than ever that Arnold wins big. If he wins, the Times
loses. The public says, take your dirt stories and shove them up
your anal cavities.
It reminds me of what the news media and the Democracts did to
Bruce Herschonsen in 1992 - that he attended strip shows and bought
skin magazines.
Six women say they were touched. I don't defend that conduct. I've
never done it ever. But in that context, in that world, it's normal.
The LA Times looks much worse than does Arnold. A vote for Schwarzenegger
is a vote against the politics of filth.
The attempts to destroy Rush Limbaugh and Arnold Schwarzenegger
are fascinating and nauseating to watch. I don't know which is most
contemptible.
What Rush Limbaugh said may have been stupid, but the press crucified
him out of proportion. When Jesse Jackson said "hymie-town,"
people like me said it was no big deal.
"I think what we've had here is a little social concern in the
NFL,'' Limbaugh said. "The media has been very desirous that a black
quarterback do well. They're interested in black coaches and black
quarterbacks doing well ... McNabb got a lot of the credit for the
performance of the team that he really didn't deserve.''
The press do want to see a black quarterback succeed. The press
talks constantly about the lack of black coaches in the NFL. It's
a constant desire in the press to see blacks succeed at positions
where they have not succeeded historically. I have wanted black
quarterbacks to succeed.
Rush Limbaugh's attack was on the press, not on blacks. I read
the comment five times. I thought about it all night. He doesn't
believe that black achievement in sports is over-rated. Does he
think Barry Bonds is over-rated?
Democrats and liberals often said that the only reason for Clarence
Thomas's (conservative US Supreme Court justice) success was because
he was black.
10/1/03
From NYTimes.com: The effect of 30 years of feminism on television
is a little like an old folk legend: a crippled peasant asks God
to make both his hands the same and awakens to find that both are
shriveled.
Women on television are still sometimes squeezed into demeaning
caricatures (or at least inappropriate clothing: surgeons, homicide
detectives and high school teachers all wear low-cut tank tops to
work). But increasingly, so are men. The new fall season shrinks
the number of belittling stereotypes they may occupy to just two:
cads or dads.
Recent genetic research suggesting that the Y chromosome is devolving
— turning men into what Steve Jones, a British geneticist, labeled
the "second sex" — has found support in prime time. From CBS to
the WB, the fall shows depict men the way women were once depicted:
as supporting characters propelled by their biological imperative.
And perhaps because science has made it so much easier for women
to conceive children without a partner, these television fathers
do not know best.
Dennis Prager says: Women watch more TV than men and it has a negative
impact on them. Women seek to relate to TV characters if they don't
have enough real people in their life. TV shows now relentlessly
bash men as pathetic.
One man called to say he noticed a negative difference in the behavior
and attitude of his girlfriend after she got together regularly
on Sunday nights with her female friends to watch Sex in the City.
Why Single Women Vote Democractic
Dennis
Prager writes:
Given women's primal desire to be protected, if a woman has no
man to provide it, she will seek security elsewhere -- and elsewhere
today can only mean the government. In effect, the state becomes
her husband. This phenomenon has frequently been commented on
with regard to the breakdown of many black families. The welfare
state simply rendered many black men unnecessary and therefore
undesirable as spouses: Why marry when you can get more benefits
from the state while remaining single (and get even more money
if you have children while remaining single)?
Once a woman does marry, however, her need for the state not
only diminishes, she now begins to view the state as inimical
to her interests. For the married woman, especially if she has
children, two primal urges work against her having a pro-big government
attitude. Her urge to be protected, which is now fulfilled by
her husband, and her primal urge to protect her nest are now endangered
by the government, which as it grows, takes away more and more
of her family's money.
Dennis Prager Supports Whites-Only Club
OAKLEY,
Calif. -- Lisa McClelland says she isn't a racist. She says
her campaign for a Caucasian Club at her California high school
is a move toward diversity, not bigotry.
McClelland says she's collected 245 signatures of support from
students, adults and others since announcing her plans three weeks
ago. One person who won't be signing up is Darnell Turner, first
vice president of the local chapter of the NAACP. Turner says he
thinks the club will create racial tension.
..........................
On his nationally syndicated radio show, Dennis Prager says that
for the first time he supports white clubs, as there are already
black, Latino and asian clubs in schools. There are separation dorms
and graduating ceremonies for blacks and Latinos. So why shouldn't
whites have their only club? No caller during the hour could answer
that question.
9/18/03
Find
a Husband After 35 Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School:
A Revolutionary 15-Step Action Program
Dennis Prager interviewed author Rachel Greenwald. "Interviewed"
is the wrong verb. For much of the hour, Prager interrupted and
lectured his guest as he usually does. Dennis can never keep himself
in the background in an interview. His own views must be foremost
and the guest must constantly respond to and cater to Prager's thoughts
and feelings. I can't recall one guest out of hundreds who has appreciated
being repeatedly interrupted by Prager so Dennis can lecture the
guest.
You'd think Prager's 15 hours or so a week on the air alone would
be enough for him so that for a handful of hours a week, he can
leave his ego in the background and concentrate on his guest. He's
a lousy interviewer. He's particularly bad with women, particularly
young women, because they are most likely to allow him to ride roughshod
over them, and be left speechless by his pompous "asides."
I remember near the end of an interview with British journalist
Paul Johnson, Dennis Prager interrupted to say he'd attended the
University of Leeds. Johnson and the audience did not care at that
moment. Prager has had plenty of other times on air alone to talk
about his experience in England for one year.
Prager talked about his $30 singles afternoons. A man got up and
said he didn't understand - women want him to be decisive and come
up with a restaurant for a date. After he does, they always say
they want to go someplace else. Prager made a good comeback - welcome
to life with women. They want you to come up with something, but
it is rarely good enough.
I am 37 and have dated a lot. I have rarely experienced that restaurant
syndrome.
Prager said he was favorably disposed to the book because of the
politically correct criticisms in Publishers Weekly. "The book
takes a reactionary, conservative approach to dating: she emphasizes
the importance of femininity and of letting the man make the first
move; "men are usually more attracted to women in skirts than in
pants... literally as well as figuratively.""
9/12/03
Who's More Easy Going? Men Or Women?
In his happiness hour September 12, Dennis Prager discussed the
importance of being easy going with life's little misfortunes like
a flat tire or losing a wallet. I lost a wallet a year ago and it
took me about nine months (due to constant DMV screwups) to make
things right. Dennis wondered if it was possible to develop a more
easy going nature?
All the callers were male. Why? I suspect because men suffer more
from the emotional turbulence of women in personal matters and hence
have thought more about the importance of an easy going nature.
Author C.S. Lewis points out that if your kid broke the window of
a neighbor, you'd rather deal with the man of the house than the
woman.
The book Authentic Happiness says women tend to be twice as happy
and twice as depressed as men.
Dennis says exemplifying means little. Dennis plays the piano and
exemplified it to his kids and none of them play the piano.
Dennis's stepdaughter Anya, who recently married a man from France,
phones in. She says, "As you know, I am not easy going. But
I'm learning from my brother David."
9/10/03
Boring Old Tim Rutten So Wrong He's Interesting
Dennis
Prager described today's LA Times Tim Rutten's article as "surpassingly
ignorant, wrong about everything...moronic...dumb... The type of
article I'd hand out to demonstrate the shallowness of liberal thought."
Dennis points out:
* How does Rutten substantiate his claim that fewer than 25% of
listeners to conservative talkshow hosts are women? I believe Tim
Rutten told a lie. [Marty Kaplan has no idea where Rutten comes
up with this stuff.] Rutten just hates the right wing so much he
lies.
* Folks like Rutten and the leftist media are angry that there's
a segment of the media, talkradio, that they cannot control, and
people who have educations at leftist journalism schools (virtually
all journalism programs are leftist).
* More men read newspapers than women.
* I bet my audience is half men, half women. I base that on my
callers, emailers, letter writers, and the audiences where I speak.
* As for this gender gap. The news media harped on Reagen about
it, but women ended up voting for him. This gap divides among married
women and single women. Married women, particularly married women
with kids, vote Republican. Single women, particularly single women
with kids, vote Democratic. Single women, who don't have a man to
look after them, look to the government to look after them.
* I bet the proportion of women reading The Nation, America's premiere
leftwing weekly, is smaller than that of women listening to radio
talkshows.
Rutten writes: That doesn't surprise media scholar [former Democratic
party speechwriter] Martin Kaplan, who directs the Norman Lear Center
at USC's Annenberg School of Communications. He suggests that "the
anthropology of talk radio explains its predominately male audience.
After all, when you listen to one of these shows, it's all about
screaming and chest thumping — sort of like what you see in those
studies of the great apes. Think of the host as the silverback:
He screams and thumps his chest, and the listeners call in to emulate
him.
"That's not a mating call," Kaplan says wryly, "it's a macho dominance
game. In that sense, talk radio is no longer much different than
the sports call-in shows, which use knowledgeability of the game
as a kind of male bonding ritual."
Dennis interviews Marty Kaplan, who he's known a long time and
Dennis says is a good guy.
Dennis asked him for talkshow hosts screamers and chest thumpers:
Dennis: No.
Hugh Hewitt: Sometimes.
Michael Medved: Yes.
Sean Hannity: Yes.
Larry Elder: Yes.
Laura Ingraham: Yes.
Dennis: I'd agree that Michael Savage and Ann Coulter are chest
thumpers. Not Laura Ingraham. I haven't heard Rush Limbaugh in years.
Having a point of view does not make you a chest thumper.
Marty says that Phil Donahue is not a chest thumper. Maureen Dowd
can be. Paul Krugman can be. Joe Conason can be.
Dennis: "I don't hear these [conservative hosts] guys as screamers."
Marty: "We have different thresholds of androgens and estrogens.
When I listen [various conservative hosts], why are they screaming
at me? They only say we're in this together and bad guys stay out."
Dennis: "I am not an entertainer. I am not here to entertain.
I am to inform and change minds but I have to do it that entertains."
Marty: I don't see the difference. The people who pay your salary
have as their primary purpose selling eardrums to advertisers.
[It so happens that Prager's employers are a Christian organization
with an ideological agenda.]
Marty: I think all forms of discourse are being appropriated by
entertainment, be it politics, journalism, education. That's irrespective
of the content. That's true of The Los Angeles Times.
Dennis: If you draw no distinction between a comic book and the
LA Times, the concept is useless.
Marty: If you can ask what do they have in common, opera and World
Wrestling Federation, it will be illuminating.
Dennis: I don't agree.
Rutten writes: "First, of course, there's the fact that much
of Schwarzenegger's recent celebrity is built around his career
as a star in ultraviolent action films, whose audience overwhelmingly
consists of young men. These are the sorts of movies most women
forbid their younger children to watch on cable and scold their
adolescent sons for renting."
Dennis says: There's nothing wrong with Terminator movies. They
are cartoonish fantasies. Any woman who scolds her adolescent son
for renting them is a fool. I like movies where bad guys get shot.
I had my children watching The Lone Ranger at age six. But I bet
Tim Rutten shares these negative feelings about Terminator movies
while he probably has no problem with handing out condoms to kids
in public schools.
LF says: Most talkradio hosts are not Conservative, they are not
liberal. Many hosts like Howard Stern, Larry Elder, are libertarian.
Tom Leykis is liberal.
On LA Observed, host Kevin
Roderick describes today's Rutten column as "stimulating"
because it agrees with Roderick's perceptions. Kevin has long written
against the inaccuracies of talkradio.
Luke posts to LA Observed:
Marty Kaplan is a moron. There's plenty of thoughtful non-screaming
AM talk radio like Dennis Prager, Larry Elder, Hugh Hewitt, Michael
Medved. Michael Parks of the USC journalism program told David Horowitz
that there is not one Republican on the faculty, nor will there
ever be, as any new hires have to be approved by the current faculty,
who are all on the political left. Journalism programs normally
lean left. As does Rutten and the LA Times.
As for AM talk radio being friendly to Arnold, I know that Dennis
Prager has been openly skeptical from the beginning. The reason
that talk radio leans right is that talk radio hosts have to defend
their ideas. Liberalism is felt-through, not thought-through to
quote Prager. Liberalism only thrives in arenas where its proponents
do not have to defend themselves, as in the news media and academia.
Rachel writes LA Observed:
Why do we keep hearing from Marty? Yes, he was a speech writer--for
the most boring guy in the history of American politics. His track
record at Disney wasn't anything to brag about, either. Talk about
failing upwards. but the LATimes has his number on speed-dial, and
he's quoted at least once a week.
9/3/03
Dennis Prager admits he lost his cool while talking with a listener
about MTV. Prager says that channel is destructive.
At the MTV awards, Madonna and Britney Spears had open-mouth kisses,
both in rehearsal and on stage.
Whatever society says is cool, people will do. Sexual orientation
may be fixed but sexual behavior is not. We're polymorphouse perverse.
When heterosexual men are in prison or on ships, they will often
have homosexual sex.
Because society says homosexuality is cool, Britney Spears, a heterosexual,
will share a lesbian kiss with Madonna, a bisexual. Now millions
of girls who watch her will do the same.
I've always said Britney Spears is awful for this country. Even
when she said she was a virgin, I said I'd much rather her sleep
around privately and dress decently.
On private sexual matters, I have libertarian views. On public
sexual matters, I have conservative views.
There's no doubt that homosexual behavior is increasing among heterosexuals.
Especially women. Women want tenderness, caresses, and love.
Men fantasize about two women getting it on but women rarely fantasize
about two men getting it on.
Trashing Arianna Huffington
I hear a large number of (largely conservative) pundits trashing
Arianna Huffington. I have not heard one pundit yet question himself
- why did I get suckered in by this woman years ago? Why am I so
shallow in my perceptions that I'll go to bat for any smooth talker
who seems to share my views?
I heard Dennnis Prager saying Arianna was a very sad woman because
of her shift from right to left. No introspection, however, on Prager's
part, for his vigorous support for her when her husband ran for
US Senate in 1994. I remember how he decried newspaper articles
that portrayed her as a nut. Dennis said she had been treated most
cruelly by the news media.
It's similar to when I left Christianity and converted to Judaism.
Many of my Christian friends wanted nothing to do with me. People
become uncomfortable around those who change. We're only comfortable
around those who are like us.
8/20/03
DP: The New York Times believes that its purpose of publishing
is to influence policy, not to report the news. Yesterday there
were two major bombings - on the UN building in Baghdad (killing
17) and a suicide bombing of a bus in Jerusalem killing 18.
While most major papers gave equal attention to the two bombings,
the NY Times emphasized, with four columns, the Baghdad bombing
because the NYT hated the Iraq intervention. The NYT wants to emphasize
road map to peace and thus wants to play down Palestinian murder
of Jewish innocents. Thus only one column to this latest Jerusalem
bombing.
Hamas and the Palestinians love death. Israelis love life, as a
Hamas official famously said.
TV news takes its cues from the NYT not the Washington Post, LA
Times, etc...
The San Diego Tribune covered yesterday's events in a similar way
to the NY Times. The Tribune is a famously right-wing paper that
employed many of Nixon's disgraced aides.
8/18/03
Dennis Prager cited what he called an ultra-orthodox black hat
rabbi, Yitzhok Adlerstein, who said he'd rather non-Jews believed
in the Virgin Birth etc than have the values of French men.
I do not believe that Rabbi
Adlerstein is a black hat. I've seen him on a hundred occasions
and I've never seen him wearing a black hat. He's a right of center
Orthodox rabbi and a member of Agudah Yisrael. Rabbi A. specializes
in outreach to secular Jews. He works at Project
Next Step. Rabbi A. is probably Orthodoxy's premier spokesman
in Los Angeles and has deeply touched my life.
Rabbi Adlerstein and Prager have been friends for a long time though
years have gone by, at times, when they did not see each other.
Nicholas
Kristof writes in the NY Times:
Yet despite the lack of scientific or historical evidence, and
despite the doubts of Biblical scholars, America is so pious that
not only do 91 percent of Christians say they believe in the Virgin
Birth, but so do an astonishing 47 percent of U.S. non-Christians.
I'm not denigrating anyone's beliefs. And I don't pretend to
know why America is so much more infused with religious faith
than the rest of the world. But I do think that we're in the middle
of another religious Great Awakening, and that while this may
bring spiritual comfort to many, it will also mean a growing polarization
within our society. But mostly, I'm troubled by the way the great
intellectual traditions of Catholic and Protestant churches alike
are withering, leaving the scholarly and religious worlds increasingly
antagonistic.
I worry partly because of the time I've spent with self-satisfied
and unquestioning mullahs and imams, for the Islamic world is
in crisis today in large part because of a similar drift away
from a rich intellectual tradition and toward the mystical. The
heart is a wonderful organ, but so is the brain.
Dennis replies: The problem with modern Islam is not the belief
in the mystical but the bad values. Mystically inclined groups are
no more likely to pursue criminal violence than scientifically inclined
groups. Most if not all Arab intellectuals support Hamas (terrorist
group), which is secular and accepts evolution.
The whacky groups like PETA, which equate the slaughtering of chickens
with the slaughtering of Jews in the Holocaust, are secular. Those
who support same-sex marriage are secular.
8/15
Dennis says Arianna Huffington is one of the saddest figures in
public life. She went from being a voice for good values to being
a leftist radical, denouncing loopholes for the rich while paying
$800 in taxes in the past two years. Dennis says he has theories
for her fall but he won't say them on the air because he doesn't
like to talk about people publicly.
I remember when Michael Huffington was running for US Senate and
his wife Arianna was regarded as a kook, Prager vigorously defended
her and attacked those who attacked her. I get no sense from Prager
that he will admit he was wrong.
DP says he wants to release how much he paid in taxes in the past
years.
Democrats raise taxes and Republicans pay taxes.
Arianna sends her two kids to private schools. Does she support
vouches?
Arianna says she won't use her kids as guinea pigs. So she regards
sending your kids to public schools as guinea pigs?
8/14/03
Why Are There Fewer Marriages?
Wendy
McElroy writes on Foxnews.com:
Non-marriage is a particularly difficult issue to address because,
as a
recent paper from Rutgers University entitled "Why Men Won't
Commit" explains, official sources are scarce. "The federal government
issues thousands of reports on nearly every dimension of American
life. ... But it provides no annual index or report on the state
of marriage." Much of the discussion of the motives surrounding
non-marriage must be anecdotal, therefore, relying on statistics
to provide framework and perspective.
In examining reasons for the
current decline of marriage, one question usually receives
short shrift. Why are men reluctant to marry?
The Rutgers report, admittedly based on a small sample, found
ten prevalent reasons. The first three:
They can get sex without marriage;
They can enjoy "a wife" through cohabitation; and,
They want to avoid divorce and its financial risks.
As a critic of anti-male bias in the family courts
(search),
the reasons I hear most frequently from non-marrying men are fear
of financial devastation in divorce and of losing meaningful contact
with children afterward. (Such feedback is anecdotal evidence
but, when you hear the same response over a period of years from
several hundred different sources, it becomes prudent to listen.)
In a similar vein, the Rutgers report finds: "Many men also fear
the financial consequences of divorce. They say that their financial
assets are better protected if they cohabit rather than marry.
They fear that an ex-wife will 'take you for all you've got' and
that 'men have more to lose financially than women' from a divorce."
Increasingly, men are stating their reasons for not marrying
on the Internet. In an article entitled "The
Marriage Strike," Matthew Weeks expresses a sentiment common
to such sites, "If we accept the old feminist argument that marriage
is slavery for women, then it is undeniable that, given the current
state of the nation's family courts, divorce is slavery for men."
Weeks provides the math. One in two marriages will fail with
the wife being twice as likely to initiate the proceedings on
grounds of "general discontent" the minimum requirement of no-fault
divorce. The odds of the woman receiving custody of children are
overwhelming, with many fathers effectively being denied visitation.
The wife usually keeps the "family" assets and, perhaps, receives
alimony as well as child support. Many men confront continuing
poverty to pay for the former marriage.
Weeks concludes: "Over five million divorced men in America are
currently experiencing the situation I just outlined. Without
a doubt, their stories and experiences are heard by unmarried
men. Can anyone truly blame the men for having apprehension?"
He uses what has become a new term at least in the mouths of
men: "the
marriage strike." Most of the men who go "on strike" undoubtedly
do so quietly but others are making a loud political statement.
For example, the Joint
Parenting Association declares, "An international 'marriage
strike' by men is set to continue indefinitely until Family Law
is reformed to recognize that fathers love their children too."
SGil writes: Anecdotal my butt. The researchers aren't interested
in the point of view she revealed, so there is no evidence!
Want proof? Okay, I was commuting to Cupertino for about a year.
(You remember, it was I first found you on the Internet when I couldn't
listen to DP while out of town.)
I rented an apartment for my stay. My new phone number wound up
on some list, because all of a sudden I was inundated with by phone
survey callers for all sorts of studies. (In over 30 years in L.A.
this had not happened ever).
One of those surveys was asking a bunch of questions, oh I don't
remember any but one. That question was: "Do you think our divorce
courts favor the man, the woman, or both equally?"
I answered "Most of all it favors the lawyers."
The young woman on the line said that wasn't one of the answers
on her sheet. I asked, was there an "other" choice on the sheet?
She said, "No, but there is an undecided." I said "Well, I'm not
undecided. I know enough about the contentious attitude many lawyers
provoke as they advocate. It all adds up to hours for them. I'm
very decided on this. The divorce judge doesn't turn to one of the
plaintives and ask 'did your lawyer suggest this?' or 'that sounds
like your lawyer speaking, is it?' whereupon if the answer comes
back 'yes,' or 'a bit' the lawyer could be sighted for contempt
of court or some such fitting penalty. No, I definitely am not decided
on this!"
And the girl pleads, well the only other option is undecided. "I'll
tell you what, please write in the margin 'Insists the answer is
lawyers' and you haven't done anything wrong. Is that okay?"
"Yes, I guess." "Tell me, who do you work for?"
"Well, I got this job from an ad I saw in high school, and I think
it's for a prof at ---" [I don't remember the college name she gave,
but it was within NYC, I vaguely recall it may have been Brooklyn
College.]
"How old are you?"
"16"
"Do you enjoy this job."
"It's okay."
"Have you had others complain about this question?"
"Yes, but none as insistent about it as you." ( I had gotten her
to promise to put my answer into the margin by saying "well, if
you don't do it, I guess this interview will have to end.")
About how many have complained about the question being too narrow?"
"Oh, less than half -- but a lot more than any other question."
There you have it Luke. Wendy had to say it was anecdotal evidence
because there is nobody who wants any thorough study of this sort
of response generally disseminated. Can't be good for biz. More
couples would either go for no fault divorce or actually (devil
forbid) reconcile!
8/13/03
Prager hosts Republican strategist Arnold Steinberg.
DP consulted Arnie when he was thinking of running against Barbara
Boxer for US Senate.
Arnie says that when Prager first consulted with him, Dennis seemed
almost certain he'd run. Then Dennis decided against it for personal
reasons (spend more time with his family).
8/7/03
Prager Unimpressed With Arnold Schwarzenegger
Dennis Prager will be on the Today Show Friday to talk about the
Mel Gibson film.
Dennis was not impressed with Arnold's performance on the Tonight
show. He lashed out against special interests but did not name any.
He didn't get any specifics on his platform. He hasn't established
credibility in the political arena.
There's no comparison to Ronald Reagan, who was in public and political
life arguing issues for 20 years before he ran for office.
I don't like the idea that you go straight from Hollywood fame
to public office without intermediary steps.
One thing I like about Arnold is that he's grateful for being an
American.
SGil writes about the replay of DP's interview of Paul Johnson:
Quote that got to me (and of which I wish DP would add to his "for
clarity" list): "Hatred is to be expected. Standing for the right
will get you hated" both from those wishing to do wrong and those
inclined to slouch into compliance with the wrongdoers. "[paraphrase]Standing
up for the right is often the loneliest thing in the world."
I've stated this many times. It struck me today, perhaps again,
what I've understood implicitly a good portion of my adult life:
how much good people need to hear it. As finding an oasis when parched.
But we are never really alone. Could it ever be more clear why the
Leftist/Statist's strive mightily to drive God from the public realm?
Secular humanists relentlessly want us to see their intellect and
control as supreme; that few of us must be allowed to be aware of
the Supreme. Can being religious soon become a dangerous prerogative?
Will the sun set today?
8/6/03
From NYT: 62 of 107 diocesan bishops voted to approve the bishop-elect,
V. Gene Robinson. Moments later, more than 12 conservative bishops,
their faces grim, marched slowly to the front of the House of Bishops
to denounce the decision as an affront to church teaching that would
split the denomination in two.
The new homosexual Episcopal bishop left his wife and children
for a man. He compared his election to bishop to Christ's resurrection.
Dennis Prager Criticizes Sunday's LAT's Article
About Division At Shalhevet
Barry Siegel wrote what I thought was a gripping and fascinating
account of a clash of values at the modern Orthodox
Jewish school Shalhevet. Here are excerpts from the article:
An enthusiastic young teacher finds an Orthodox Jewish school
full of moral purpose and wide-open debate. But then he starts
talking about the Middle East.
"Come in, it's warm inside," beckoned an ad for the Orthodox
Jewish school Shalhevet, and that's just what Alexander Maksik
did. It was a shock at first. There he was, a young sometime actor,
a secular Jew uninterested in religion, newly installed as a middle
school English teacher. In the hallways, girls and women walked
by in long skirts, boys and men with yarmulkes on their heads.
At 7:30 each morning, the students gathered to daven. In the afternoon
came more prayer, everyone standing, bending at the waist. Shalhevet
had a kosher kitchen and no Christmas break, not even on Christmas
Day. Maksik had never seen such loyalty to Jewish culture.
He loved this school's pride. Even more, he loved its wide-open
spirit.
Dennis Prager thought the article was pointless. He griped about
how it took up most of the front page with a big photo.
Dennis: "The author loved the teacher. The LA Times loved
the teacher. The thought that a Jewish school wishes its kids to
support Israel apparently disturbs The Los Angeles Times.
"This seventh grade secular teacher [Alexander Maksik] decided
that he was going to go in and show the other side. You would think
that the purpose of teachers is to teach truth - moral truth, factual
truth - not 'other sides.' But to the modern mind of the left, the
typical secular person on the left, the other side is what needs
to be taught and there is no moral truth. Here's the proof. I devoted
an hour to this article:
"He didn't think you could say "this is right, this is wrong,"
and then claim you were educating kids."
"Isn't that awesome? And that's what the LA Times' loves about
him. That a teacher could not say to kids, This is right or this
is wrong. This the times finds worthy of front page attention -
the beauty of teacher who can not say this is right... This summarizes
our present moral crisis.
"The world has many crises. For reasons that are unclear to
me, the vast center of the front page of the LA Times on Sunday
was about an Orthodox Jewish school, which my son [David] had attended...
This is all new to me [in the article]. It's not so much about the
school as it was about the secular teacher they brought in and how
he got in conflict with them because he wanted to show them a lot
of pro-Palestinian things, movies, and books, and so on.
"I have zero problem with that at a later age. People should
be exposed to all points of view. But when the point of view is
wrong, it is not the duty of a school to subject a kid to it. Among
the greatest [places] of moral clarity today is the Palestinian/Arab
- Israeli conflict. One side wants primarily to destroy the other,
one wants to live in peace. One side celebrates death. One side
celebrates life.
"They celebrate the teacher in this article. He opens their
eyes. He teaches seventh grade and he assigns Palestinian works
in a religious Jewish school.
"The reason I think this teacher is not intellectually honest
is that he would never go to a Muslim and assign pro-Israeli Zionist
texts. The Muslim school certainly wouldn't keep him if he did,
while this guy stayed for a while at this Jewish school until they
finally made it bad for him to stay. People were not happy.
"The article is not really about Israel or the school. It's
about the celebration of secular moral confusion. This is how your
kids are taught by most teachers in secular schools.
"If the seventh grade teacher of my kid couldn't teach this
is right and this is wrong, I would want that teacher fired.
"If this teacher in a religious school can't say this is right
and this is wrong, why do I need a religious school? To pray and
then have moral confusion."
Luke: "This teacher taught secular subjects. It was not his
job to indoctrinate the kids."
Dennis: "Everybody in the article seemed absurd. The teacher
looked absurd. The school looked absurd. Listen to this line after
another homocide bombing in Israel."
A mother says in the article: "This wasn't what she wanted
for her son. One reason she sent her child to Shalhevet was for
protection — to buffer him for a while from the intensity of the
world. Maksik didn't understand that. It was all just theory for
him."
Dennis: "What a devastating line. It's all just theory. Why
is it just theory? Because Maksik doesn't have kids and I bet he's
not married. He doesn't understand what parents go through with
kids.
"He had a big complaint there that the only articles on the
school bulletin board were about Palestinian suicide bombers. All
the news is about horrors to Israel. There's never any discussion
of any other side. I wonder if during WWII, he would've opposed
American schools only showing the horrors the Nazis committed but
not the horrors the Germans underwent?"
Here are excerpts of this "pointless" article that Prager
did not discuss:
When they studied "To Kill a Mockingbird," all the students agreed
that the treatment of the black character Tom Robinson was racist
and cruel. On the spot, Maksik asked: What would they think if
Tom Robinson were a Palestinian?
"I would spit on him," one boy replied.
This shocked Maksik. He began to see in kids this young an expression,
a look in the eyes, of absolute certainty. He feared that these
kids were learning to hate other people.
To some at Shalhevet, the Palestinians were equivalent to the
Nazis. That became clear one day when an otherwise gentle rabbi
said, "I hope they kill all the Palestinians."
Some teachers on the Judaic staff averted their eyes when Maksik
passed in the hallway. A parent told him she wouldn't mind if
all Arabs disappeared.
The Passion - Jews As Christ-Killers
On his radio show today, 8/4/03, Dennis Prager said he saw the
movie THE PASSION with Mel Gibson. Prager says one fine Christian
man in the audience after the film said it made him want to take
a gun and shoot the Jews responsible for Christ's crucifixtion.
Prager says the film makes Jews look bad but he doubts it will cause
American Christians to treat Jews today badly.
Prager told Mel Gibson the movie should make a ton of money in
Arab countries because they hate Jews. This thought had never occurred
to Mel Gibson. He's an American Catholic. European and Latin American
Christianity is steeped in hatred of Jews.
Dave writes: "Mel's an Australian member of a Catholic splinter
group that hasn't accepted the validity of any pope in the last
40 years or so, and his father is a leader of the group, holocaust
denier, and antisemite (if you don't believe me, check out the NYTimes
magazine article about him that came out some time in the last year
or so)."
The film portrays Jews as Christ-killers. For the past 2000 years,
Jews have been regarded as Christ-killers, and persecuted and murdered
for it. For those who already loathe Jews, the film can be used
terribly. I am not happy about this film going beyond American borders.
This will be a big deal in other parts of the world to reinforce
hatred of Jews.
Dennis: I don't blame Mel Gibson for this. I believe his only intention
was to portray as accurately as he could, the death of Christ. He
had only noble religious intentions.
Mel Gibson was not aware of the history of persecution of Jews
for being Christ-killers. I'm working with Mel Gibson's staff to
make for smoother relations.
Many Jews are over-sensitive. Just because someone says, "He
jewed me down," doesn't mean he hates Jews.
The Jews look disgusting in this film. Jews have a right to be
worried. It's also ok to make films that make Jews look bad.
In America, Christians are taught that sinning humanity killed
Christ.
A caller from Mexican says she was called Christ-killer regularly
as a kid. Mexican Jews live in enclaves and are kept out of the
heart of Mexican society. Only in America are Jews an integrated
part of their larger society.
DP: This film is made for the believing Christian. As a non-Christian,
the film does not have the power that it has for the believer. I
don't find two hours of Jesus being tortured inspiring. I wish this
film were never made.
If Gibson had asked me two years ago, what type of film could I
make to inspire Christians and help bring Christians and non-Christians
closer together, this would've been my last suggestion.
There are a lot of lessons here for blacks (to get over their hatred
of whites for slavery). I'm very pro-black.
Luke says: What the hell does it mean for Prager to say he's pro-black?
Prager says he's color-blind. Doesn't take into account race. That
he believes in morality not racialism. Yet here he says he's pro-black.
Sounds racialist to me.
SGil writes:
It means several things nothing to do with color, but the reality
is that he cannot avoid addressing the issue in the one phrase
that is clearly understood. It's complicated for him to always
say he "believes that there are only two races: the decent and
the indecent." It means he is:
-- NOT anti-black -- he fights race hustlers (who ultimately
must be anti-black because they'd be out of a job should they
not be allowed to stir the pot with the help of the indecent in
mainstream media who may legitimately be called race baiters)
-- he supports the moral code which demands all men be judged
on their performance, not on other group think prejudices.
-- he encourages others to think and rethink their own positions
if they care to behave morally.
DP says: My son David is more observant than I am. He's a college
student (at UCLA). He walks around with a yarmulke. He gets no anti-Jewish
treatment.
Dave Deutsch writes Luke:
In the New Testament, the Jews are responsible for the death
of Jesus, and they are cursed for it. That's not Mel Gibson's
schtick, it is, quite literally, the Gospel truth. No Pope has
ever said the Jews of Jesus' time weren't responsible, only that
the Jews of our time aren't. So if anybody has a problem with
the film, bring it up with Christendom, not Mel Gibson.
And its such a non-issue. If it weren't for the press, how many
people would even have heard of this thing? The film itself is
such a hideously brilliant idea--aramaic and latin--but who would
watch it? The largest pool of aramaic speakers in the world are
Orthodox Jews, and I don't think it's high on their list.
This is part and parcel of the usual institutional Jewish narishkeyt
regarding Christianity; most Jews are growing up virtually illiterate
in Jewish culture, but what terrifies our "leaders" is that Isabella
of Castille may be made a saint--like that's the real threat to
the Jews.
Why Do Most Therapists Favor The Woman In Relationship
Counseling?
Therapists tend to favor the underdog (and usually the woman presents
herself as the underdog) and the more psychologically attuned (women).
Most of the problems (about 60%) in a relationship come from the
man, says psychiatrist Dr. Stephen Marmer on Dennis
Prager's show. Family is not as natural to men.
The most common complaint in counseling is that each spouse says
the other does not appreciate the difficulty of the other's role.
7/30/03
LAT: Jurors in the Donovan Jackson police-abuse trial declared
Tuesday that they could not reach a verdict on the assault charge
against Jeremy Morse, the former Inglewood police officer caught
on videotape last summer slamming Jackson, then 16, onto the trunk
of a police car and punching him in the face.
DP on the trial: If this had been a black officer or a white suspect,
there would've been no trial. The police man here bashed the suspect's
head on the car and gave him one punch.
He probably punched him incorrectly. It shouldn't have resulted
in a trial. It should've been handled within the department.
If a policeman says get in the back of the police car, you get
in without fighting back. That's what I'd do. You'd do.
Is trying to make police perfect going to make them better or worse?
Police can not be perfect. Police in Cincinnatti, reacting to black
rioting, stopped using force with black suspects. Black murder rates
soared. The people who suffer the most from ineffective police work
is blacks. This shows how emotions in the black community over historical
injustice overtake rational thought. All you're going to have is
more dead innocent people, most of them black.
How can you be a white officer in a black area and be constantly
thinking you are not trusted? I can understand white police officers
in such areas saying, I'm not going to risk my life going after
a black criminal.
The LA Riots were not caused by the Rodney King beating. They were
caused by the media repeatedly showing a select few seconds of video
of the beating. If the media had repeatedly shown any group member
getting beaten, that group would've become angry.
We are using excessive force against the police by putting this
officer on trial. We have more to fear from black criminals than
from white policemen.
SECOND HOUR: Prager had as guest his friend Jerry Zucker, the director
and producer. Prager raved about the stupid 2001 movie Rat Race.
It's funny if you are about ten years old in emotional intelligence.
Prager has watched it several times and loves it.
I rented the movie, watched the first 15-minutes and then gave
up on it.
Murphy writes
on IMDB.com:
How should I begin my comments on this movie, hmm.......let me
think......stinks.....sucks.....awful....non-funny......how about
crap! This is without a doubt the least funny, least interesting,
least intelligent movie I have seen this year and maybe in the
last decade. What happened to Zucker? The poor guy used to have
funny movies, not this slime he offered to the public. Rowan Atkinson,
can you say an Italian Mr. Bean? Wayne Knight, can you say Newman
from Seinfeld? Jon Lovitz, can you say any one of his boring bits
from Saturday Night Live? John Cleese, can you say the manager
from Fawlty Towers? So on and so on and so on!!! Don't let me
forget the leading romantic couple...its hard to believe they
could be any worse than they were in "Road Trip", but guess what,
they are in this garbage. Couldn't Zucker come up with any funny
ideas? Oh wait, a cow tied to a hot air balloon....ha-ha-ha not!
Wasn't funny. Wait, the dog and the heart....nope! The pierced
tounge...zzzzzzzzzz! Ooooooo, I know, the Hitler car and the cigarette
lighter....nada! I'm glad I checked this out from the library
so luckily I didn't have to pay a rental fee. My only wish is
that IMDB would allow you to give a "0" rating on movies, because
that is the rating it deserves. Instead I gave it a "1". By the
way, Mr. Zucker, if you are having nightmares in your sleep after
making this dribble, its probably Stanley Kramer's spirit causing
it. I think you owe his ghost a public apology.
Zucker talks facetiously about Prager's new diamond studs in his
ears and his renting of pornos. This latter comment throws Dennis,
because he's syndicated by a Christian network and was thrown off
a station in Sacramento for his lack of opposition to porn.
Zucker says he doesn't like to make too many movies because it
takes him from his family. Each movie is a lost year from the family.
Jerry's wife calls the show to kvell about her husband.
Dennis: "Women remember everything written about or said about
their husbands.
"You lament the preoccupation with sex in the media."
Jerry: "Primarily because I have kids. I have a 15-year old
daughter and an 11-year old son. It seems particularly with TV that's
what it is about - getting laid. I wouldn't be watching these shows
except for my sitting with my kids watching these shows. It's no
longer innuendo. My daughter says, 'Oh, come on Dad.'
THIRD HOUR: New rape law in Illinois is entirely aimed at women
yet it uses the word "people." It's all about women changing
their mind during sex.
SPRINGFIELD, Ill. (AP) -- A new rape law in Illinois attempts
to clarify the issue of consent by emphasizing that people can
change their mind while having sex.
Under the law, if someone says ``no'' at any time the other person
must stop or it becomes rape.
The National Crime Victim Law Institute said it believed the
law is the first of its kind in the country.
Lyn Schollett, general counsel for the Illinois Coalition Against
Sexual Assault, said the law was important to make it clear to
victims, offenders, prosecutors and juries that people have the
right to halt sexual activity at any time. ``I think it will empower
prosecutors in charging cases where the victim and the offender
have a sexual history,'' she said.
But the director of the Victim Advocacy & Research Group in Boston
said it would be hard to imagine courts not upholding a woman's
right to withdraw consent. ``To me, it's demeaning,'' Wendy Murphy
said. ``It's like the old saying: 'If it ain't broke, don't fix
it.' I don't think it was broke.''
The law was inspired by a California case involving two 17-year-olds
who had sex at a party. The girl changed her mind about having
sex, but the boy did not stop immediately. He was charged with
rape, and it took years for the courts to decide that he could
be found guilty under California law.
The California Supreme Court ruled in January that a man can
be convicted if a woman first consents but later asks him to stop.
Dennis: I don't like the law because trivializes the word rape.
The word's been raped by the Left. Feminists and their allies in
the Democratic party have denuded the word rape of meaning. It's
come to mean any sex that a woman regrets. In the rape statistics
of Ms Magazine, that regret is included.
For any woman who has been raped, this new law must be vile. I
don't defend this behavior of men. I just don't want to call it
rape.
If every undesirable sexual act is rape, then nothing is rape.
If a man doesn't withdraw quickly enough, he raped her?
If women initiate sex, and then change their minds, do they have
any responsibility?
Feminists and liberals attempts to protect women is fascinating
because these same people always tell men and women are equally
strong, capable... It's baloney if women need all these legislations.
If a woman can't handle a pinup calendar on a male coworker's desk,
they are clearly weaker. Feminists must believe that women are weaker.
There was a movement of feminist law professors that a man who
breaks an engagement should be sued.
If men are emotionally hurt, they have to deal with it. But if
women are hurt, they can sue.
Maybe there are lessons women should learn from unpleasant sexual
experiences, such as how quickly she gets into sexual situations.
Maybe there will be a good thing to come out of all this - an increased
reticence to have intercourse.
To call a man a rapist, because he did not immediately stop having
sex with his girlfriend of a year, is terrible (referring to the
California case). And it makes women look weak.
As our society becomes more secular, it becomes less religous and
values based. With the collapse of values, you need more laws to
regulate human behavior. We give condoms out to 15-year olds and
arrest them more easily. Previously, we did neither.
Prager does not believe wives should be able file rape charges
against their husbands. If a spouse or boyfriend does this, you
should leave the relationship.
A woman caller said she believes she benefits from this law as
a woman, by the broadening of the definition of rape.
DP says he's no longer aghast about the charge of rape.
7/29/03
When you have tension with somebody, write to them. It's more effective
than talking it out. People write in a more understated way than
they speak. If you handwrite it, it's hard to edit and hard to send.
The ideal is to email.
DP: I have engaged in this in personal and business life. It is
an unbelievable discovery. When you confront someone verbally, everyone
gets tense and defensive and then aggressive. But if it is written,
you can take your time.
Typically in an argument, one person will say, "I never said
that." And you won't know. With writing, you know.
Luke: I like these suggestions and have used them for over a decade.
The problem is - most women I've used them on have not appreciated
the technique. They say I write things I wouldn't say in person.
That's probably true. I don't like confrontation in personal life
and tend to go along to get along. When I write however, I can express
what I really feel.
A male caller to Prager replicated my experience. He left a list
of problems in a letter to his wife and went off to work. She called
him in tears, thinking they were headed for divorce. His friends
had similar experiences.
Prager responded: You're a typical male. You think because she's
crying that she's really upset.
Caller: She said we were headed for divorce.
Prager: She was emoting.
Natalie: Email caused two unpleasant experiences for me. One ended
a friendship with a female. A daughter in law had a huge meltdown
over it.
Prager: Most men loathe confrontation and some women do not either.
Writing enables you to confront over things you won't do otherwise.
Natalie: Women tend to overreact.
DP: Women teach us to be more in touch with our feelings. We have
to teach women how to talk more rationally when upset.
Natalie: These two issues were gnawing at me. I had to confront
and I'm glad.
Male caller: If I were with my wife, I couldn't say many of the
things I'd say if I wrote a letter.
DP: Maybe you need to say those things. Many men are afraid to
confront their wives. They need to confront and this is the way.
SECOND HOUR: Christopher Reeve is visiting Israel because the country
leads the way in paralysis research. Why aren't the countries surrounding
Israel leading the way in paralysis research? Because they spend
their billions on hating Israel. One side produces people who blow
themselves up and many innocents to get virgins in heaven and the
other side leads the way in medical research.
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A group
of parents said they will fight a possible decision to allow a white
teacher to lead classes in black history at Oberlin High School.
NewsChannel5 reported that a scheduling conflict could cause the
district to reassign the black teacher who has taught the course
for seven years.
Using a white teacher at Oberlin High School would send the wrong
message to black students, said A.G. Miller, an associate professor
of American and African religious history at Oberlin College.
DP says: It's ridiculous to use race as a determinant of the quality
of a teacher. Weren't the Nazis the last group to gauge people by
race?
7/23/03
THIRD HOUR: Prager has guest Charles Johnson of website www.littlegreenfootballs.com.
Johnson doesn't say much, Prager doesn't let him, doing most of
the talking himself. A few callers who post to the site give Charles
high fives.
Prager's show, like his TV show of eight years ago, has improved
since Allan Estrin has come on as producer.
Picture
of Kobe's accuser? - she's on the left Name
of Kobe's accuser Kobe
Bryant's Accuser Kate Faber
Is Kobe's 'Moral Bank Account' Overdrawn?
By STEVE ASCHBURNER on AOL:
A nationally syndicated talk-show host [Dennis
Prager] -- one of the conservative voices, but one whose show
is based in Los Angeles -- was talking about the Kobe Bryant sexual
assault case Tuesday and pushing his concept of the "moral bank
account" as his rationale for favoring Bryant's version of events
rather than the accuser's.
[Baloney. Prager did not favor any version of the events.]
The idea being that all of Bryant's positive, uplifting, clean-living,
family-honoring, God-fearing acts -- or yours or mine -- amass like
a passbook balance, offering proof positive, literally, that someone
has been a good person. Good people, the logic follows, generally
are not prone to criminal acts, and so on, and so forth.
Mike Tyson, for instance, had no public balance in his moral bank
account -- he was morally bankrupt -- at the point when he was accused
of raping Desiree Washington. Thus, the radio host said, it was
easy to believe that Tyson was guilty of the crime.
But Bryant, well, his single-minded pursuit of excellence, his
dearth of tattoos, his refusal to cultivate a so-called street cred,
his manners, his thoughtful answers in interviews and his knack
for simultaneously seeming hip and unhip, built up a stash of moral
currency worthy of Fort Knox.
7/22/03
Dennis says he has spoken in more synagogues in America than any
other person. And he has never heard a rabbi preach that we Jews
should hate Muslims.
I've been in a hundred synagogues and I've not heard that either.
Prager, in his second hour, debated a Muslim web activist. The
Muslim says there's all this Jewish hatred of Muslims. Prager points
out it is not comparable. There are no Jewish suicide bombers, and
few rabbis calling Jews to hate Muslims.
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Dennis Prager points out that Kobe has developed a strong moral
bank account. He's led a responsible life. He got married. He has
no tattoos. He seems like a decent fellow. The number of characters
in the NBA with good character and good family life (he married
before having kids) is so small, I pray Kobe is innocent. It's important
that inner-city black kids have a good black role model for a bourgeois
life.
When Mike Tyson was charged, I tended to believe the accusations.
A juror is not supposed to take the past into account, only the
event. In life, we act differently.
Feminism has warped jurisprudence. According to Ms Magazine, rape
is any sex a woman regrets. When I was a kid and I heard a woman
was raped, I shuddered because it was so horrible. But feminists
have raped the word of meaning.
Just like the civil rights establishment has raped the word racist.
Now it can one who opposes affirmative action. Rape and racist have
become meaningless terms.
Wendy
McElroy writes on Foxnews.com:
In his forthcoming biography Politicians, Partisans and Parasites:
My Adventures in Cable News (search), Crossfire co-host Tucker
Carlson (search) discusses another motive that underlies some
false accusations. In 2001, a woman he had never met alleged he
had raped her in Louisville, a city he had never visited. After
$14,000 in defensive legal bills, Carlson discovered that the
woman had a chronic mental disorder. He decided not to sue for
redress since it would further link his name with the word "rape."
Carlson even hesitated to speak out in his tell-all book because
"the stigma of being accused of that kind of crime is so strong."
Fortunately, he thought it taught a valuable lesson: "I always
assumed, like every other journalist does, that all sex scandals
are rooted in the truth, period. You may not have done precisely
what you're accused of, but you did something." From bitter experience,
he now knows differently.
Even charges that are later revealed to be false can devastate
the accused. Consider journalist John Fund (search), who was arrested
on charges of domestic violence and publicly excoriated for sexual
misconduct. The charges were later dropped.
How prevalent is the false reporting of sexual assault? Estimates
vary widely.
According to a study conducted by Eugene Kanin (search) of Purdue
University, the correct figure may rise to the 40 percent range.
Kanin examined 109 rape complaints registered in a Midwestern
city from 1978 to 1987. Of these, 45 were ultimately classified
by the police as "false." Also based on police records, Kanin
determined that 50 percent of the rapes reported at two major
universities were "false."
7/21/03
Dennis Prager
Loves Women's Breasts
Dennis Prager says: The line that
is used most to support a woman's right to abortion - that a woman
can do what she wants with her own body - is an entirely false argument.
An abortion destroys something that is in her body. It's not her
body. The most right-wing kook is not against women getting taboos,
shaving their hair, etc... The moral argument against abortion is
protecting the unborn.
But what about breast implants? Silicone breast implants were banned
for all women except those who'd had masectomies. But if silicone
implants were dangerous, why were they allowed for those with masectomies?
Now, the National Organization for Women has come out against silicone
breast implants. This proves they don't care about women's rights
to do what they want with their own body. NOW should say - tell
women what the dangers are with breast implants, and then let them
make their own choice.
NOW doesn't like women making themselves attractive for men.
Millions of American women have had breast enlargement in the past
decade.
DP: I am for anything that science can do to make people, particularly
women, more attractive. Looks are the powerful way that women attract
men.
I don't like breast implants. They don't look or feel good. Too
hard.
All the female callers who got implants were happy with their decision.
WASHINGTON (Reuters) - Too little is known about the long-term
health risks of silicone breast implants for U.S. regulators to
consider allowing them back on the market, health and consumer groups
said on Monday.
The United States banned silicone implants for most women in 1992
amid a controversy over whether they caused chronic diseases, but
at least one company has applied to sell them again.
The National Organization for Women, consumer group Public Citizen
and others want the Food and Drug Administration to delay its review
of any applications until longer studies are completed.
Arguing that many problems do not appear for years after implantation,
the groups want the FDA to require clinical trials following women
for at least seven to 10 years, NOW President Kim Gandy said in
an interview. The agency currently is reviewing about two years'
worth of data, she said.
``Two years of data is not going to give you any valid information
so that women will know what's going into their bodies,'' Gandy
said.
In the early 1990s, many women alleged silicone implants led to
serious health problems. But a 1999 Institute of Medicine study
found silicone implants did not cause cancer, lupus or other chronic
disorders, although they can rupture and present other problems.
Since 1992, silicone implants have been available only through
clinical trials. Saline-filled implants remained on the market,
but are not as popular. More than 300,000 U.S. women got breast
implants last year, according to the American Society of Plastic
Surgeons.
Kobe Bryant's Accuser Tried To Commit Suicide Two
Months Ago After Cheating On Her Boyfriend
Picture
of Kobe's accuser - she's on the left
From
the Orange County Register:
EAGLE, COLO – Everyone here knew her as the popular Eagle Valley
Senior High School cheerleader springing with vibrant spirit and
sweet smiles, as the beautiful singer always ready to perform in
school musicals with the clearest voice and the strongest heart.
But her close friends have been doggedly protecting a secret in
the unnerving days since the 19-year-old woman accused Los Angeles
Lakers All-Star Kobe Bryant of forcing her to have sex with him
- a secret that Bryant's attorneys could use to undermine her credibility,
legal experts say.
Two months before the woman went to the Eagle County Sheriff's
Department on July 1 alleging that Bryant had sexually assaulted
her, the woman suffered under such mental anguish that she overdosed
on pills and was rushed to a hospital, her friends told The Orange
County Register.
"I think it was just a cry for help," said Lindsey McKinney, 18,
who lived at the woman's house in May, when the woman took the pills.
McKinney was visiting other friends when, about 2 a.m. one day,
she learned from the woman's ex-boyfriend that the woman had "overdosed."
McKinney rushed to the woman's Eagle home and found the woman incoherent,
lethargic and seemingly drunk. "I was scared. She wasn't really
talking at all," McKinney said. "I was like, ' you need to open
your eyes.' "
Moments later, the woman's parents awoke and called 911. An ambulance
responded and took the woman to a hospital, McKinney said. Some
friends said they thought the overdose was an accident. Not McKinney.
DENNIS PRAGER SAYS 7/21/03: The rape of a name is as bad as a rape
without violence. So why name the accused but not the accuser? As
the victims of rape are 99% women, this is as blatant example of
sexism as there is. I thought we were all about equality now.
You could argue that you don't name the accuser to protect her
feelings and those of the men around her. But the feelings of those
who are accused of rape, and those around him, are just as real
and deep? Kobe's wife feels just as badly about this situation as
Kobe's accuser.
7/17/03
Dennis Prager
On Santa Monica Farmers Market Killings
An 86-year old man, Russell Weller, drove into the outdoor farmers
market in Santa Monica 7/16/03, killing at least nine people.
Dennis Prager, still shaking with fury: It's not right that this
old man got to go home and sleep in his bed after killing so many
people. I understand the people who wanted to beat him up after
pulling him his car, even though that would've been wrong.
``Mr. Weller and his family want to express their deepest sympathies
to the victims and their families of the tragic accident earlier
today,'' Weller family attorney Jim Bianco said in a statement Wednesday.
``This was an unintentional and unfortunate accident.''
Why did his family have their lawyer make a statement regretting
what happened? Why didn't anyone from the family face the music?
This wasn't an accident. An accident implies no one is at fault.
The man didn't have a heart attack. This was negligence on the man's
part. Negligence means not doing what normal prudent people would
do.
Killings are a big deal, even if they are negligent rather than
intentional. You shouldn't be able to kill nine people and then
nothing happen to you. It's not right that people are killed and
then society goes on as if nothing happened.
Prager linked his arguments into the Torah's teachings on non-intentional
killings.
Dennis says he got into an argument with his wife Fran over this.
She says Dennis is being harsh. We don't know enough.
DP: It's not about blaming this man. It's about taking killing
of the innocent seriously. When innocent people are killed, do we
do nothing to the person who killed them?
We should be careful about making it difficult for the elderly
to drive. No car is the equivalent of house imprisonment.
Woman calls. "If my 16-year old son had done that, they would've
beat him up. This is politically correct. Because it's old, we're
not supposed to get mad at them."
7/10/03
Nelking writes: As far as Prager being in favor of porn and prostitution
[LF: DP does not seek to criminalize these vices but he says they
are unholy]--well nobody can be ALL bad :). I had never heard the
story about him soliciting a prostitute [LF: Prager said on the
radio he was with a hooker while in college in Europe]. That must
have been a great moment in history....."$100 for a hummer? But
the hooker down the street just offered to do it for $75. You know
I would ever lie about that. I have way too much credibility. Everyone
knows how much credibility I have. I've always been that way. Even
when I was a child and my classmates would lie, I would always insist
on telling the truth at all times. Why do you think your services
are worth $100? You must have gotten an advanced degree to have
such convoluted thinking? Do you have a master's degree? I would
have gotten my degree except I don't like to type. Hey, why are
you walking away from me? Come back! Are you unable to perform because
you were injured in an accident? If so, call Berglund and Johnson
at 1-800- if hurt."
7/9/03
British author Paul Johnson was the fascinating guest in the first
hour. He said that France and England had to import many of its
clergy from Africa. Johnson noted that the center of Christianity
is shifting from Europe and the West to Africa, the Southern Hemisphere,
South America, and Asia.
Dennis does not bring up Johnson's longtime former mistress (she
used to spank him) who denounced him in the press as a hypocrite
several years ago.
Johnson says that as you get older, the more clearly you remember
the things your parents taught you.
Paul says he could not write a history of Islam. It would take
knowledge of Arabic and a lifetime of learning to master the texts.
Paul writes a weekly essay in the Spectator each week. He says
he reads a tremendous amount, a lot of it trivial, like novels.
This is one of Prager's best ever interviews (except the half dozen
times he interrupted his guest with extraneous comments, such as
he attended the University of Leeds, though Johnson barrelled over
all of these interruptions).
SECOND HOUR. Prager says he was a michiefmaker and troublemaker
in school. He hated goody goodies. Prager said he wanted to shoot
those kids who "brown-nosed." (What a disgusting expression.
I was shocked at age 19 when I first learned what it meant.) He
also hated bullies and bad people.
Recently, Prager told his youngest son that he should rephrase
what he wanted to say to make it kinder. The son said he didn't
want to because he didn't want to be a goody goody.
Prager spent the hour discussing the difference between good and
goody goody. Prager offered the example of him running red lights
when there was no traffic coming in either direction and DP is convinced
that the light is broke because it hasn't changed quickly enough.
Prager looked at those drivers who didn't run red lights as goody
goodies.
My answer is that a goody goody is anyone who is finer, kinder,
more generous, more ethical or more religious than you are. It is
a human instinct to dislike people who are more ethical than you
(because their example inherently pricks your conscience) and to
dislike people less ethical than you (for obvious reasons, including
that they could hurt you).
None of the disinctions discussed on Prager's show struck me as
convincing differences between good and goody good (that G&G
is showy, done for attention, to flatter, religious automatons,
difference in motivations). I think my answer is better.
A caller said that "cool" and goody goody" is fake
while good is real.
THIRD HOUR: If a white had made Dusty
Baker's comments that blacks and latins do better with heat,
he would've been fired. Al Campanis, former General Manager of the
Los Angeles Dodgers who said that blacks did not have the mental
capacities to be managers and executives in major league baseball,
and that they did not swim well, was fired.
Jimmy the Greek Snyder was fired after saying that blacks were
bred to be athletically superior. That's identical to what Dusty
Baker said. What's clear is that we don't judge blacks and white
over identical comments. DP says neither Dusty's or Jimmy's comments
were worth getting riled up over.
Prager complains about all the popups on the news page he's trying
to read. Why doesn't he use the Google or Alexa bar which stops
popups?
Prager says he has a problem when blacks refer to each other as
brother in racially mixed company because it is exclusionary.
7/8/03
Prager said Michael Savage deserved to get fired for saying that
a homosexual male caller who was harassing him should "get
AIDS and die." It didn't matter that Savage thought he was
off the air.
Prager says he's learned that it is a good idea to narrow the difference
between how you speak publicly and privately.
7/7/03
Dennis Prager read approvingly from this WSJ editorial:
We'd also feel more encouraged if the U.S. began to rethink its
strategy against military tribunals for the crimes and torture committed
under Saddam's rule. In the best of all worlds, the decision on
how to balance prosecution with reconciliation might have been left
to a new Iraqi government. But with the Baathist-jihadi challenge,
anti-terror prosecution is needed now as a tool of security and
a sign that the old killers will never return. Iraqis afraid that
the Baathists might come back need to be reassured by seeing their
jailers punished.
There is every reason to believe that the U.S. will eventually
defeat this Baathist-terror counterattack, as completely as it did
the Republican Guard in April.
But the first step toward that victory is recognizing the challenge,
and explaining it to America with the same thoroughness and candor
Mr. Bush displayed before he committed U.S. troops. The lesson we
draw from American wars is that the public will accept casualties,
even in large numbers, as long as it feels the cause warrants it
and that its leaders have a strategy to succeed. As late as May
of 1967, long into the war and after more than 10,300 U.S. deaths,
50% of the American public still supported the conflict in Vietnam.
........................
Dennis Prager was heartbroken that Kobe Bryant, Los Angeles Laker
basketball star, was arrested this weekend for sexual assault. Prager
hoped he'd be shown to be innocent. DP says Kobe has developed a
moral bank account.
Prager rejoiced to be on the air in New York again. He was on WABC
for two years, rated number one in his timeslot, but the pressure
of doing two radio shows and a TV show made Prager sick (foot and
mouth disease).
Dennis is now on WWDJ 970AM.
Just 2 Years for Shooting a Cop
Stephen
McDonald writes in the Washington Post: On the night of March
25, a criminal named Bernard Johnson did his best to kill D.C. Police
Detective Anthony McGee. Then, on June 4, a judge named Susan Winfield
did her best to avoid punishing Johnson for his attack. This is
a true story of how justice in the District can be a crime. Back
in March, Johnson was already a two-time loser on gun charges. When
McGee and I confronted Johnson in a Northeast Washington alley during
an investigation, he was a convicted felon facing the risk of yet
another arrest. So he did what came naturally: He pulled out his
unlicensed .380 semiautomatic handgun, fired three high-velocity
rounds into McGee and ran. McGee survived.
Dennis Prager wondered if a disproportionate number of judges who
are lenient on violent criminals are women? Dennis says that rapists
and murderers get about the same prison time because murderers usually
murder men and rapists rape women.
Reform, Conservative Jews Celebrate Bark Mitzvahs
From
Forward.com: Larry Roth, co-owner of the Doggie Do and PussyCat
Too Animal Salon in New York's Murray Hill neighborhood, has played
no small part in this trend. Having hosted about 30 Bark Mitzvahs
over the past 13 years, he's become something of an expert on the
matter. So is this a rite of passage? For most people, he said,
the Bark Mitzvah is "an excuse to have a party."
"It's mostly Reform and Conservative Jews who come here to celebrate
a rite of passage for their dog," Roth said. "Some people celebrate
it after the dog has lived 13 human years, and some people do it
after 13 dog years." Roth's mother, Arlene, helps out at the salon.
Her view, it seems, has gone one step further than "like mother,
like son." "I think my dogs are very Jewish, since I am," she said.
While most Bark Mitzvahs are organized with tongue firmly in cheek,
Rabbi Neil Comess-Daniels of Beth Shir Shalom, a Reform temple in
Santa Monica, Calif., sees a spiritual component that goes beyond
dog biscuits shaped as Stars of David.
He has performed eight Bark Mitzvahs in the past 15 years. For
Comess-Daniels, Bark Mitzvahs are about the spiritual connection
some humans feel for their animals, not about a relationship between
their dogs and God — regardless of all the linguistic palindrome
jokes.
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Dennis Prager says: If my dog is my companion, why can I not marry
her?
For those for whom a Bar Mitzvah is just an excuse to party, why
not for dogs? This is a commentary on our times. Only for those
who take the Bar Mitzvah seriously, is this offensive. To put a
prayer shawl on a dog?
For those for whom a Bar Mitzvah is just an excuse to party, why
not for dogs? This is a commentary on our times. If you get rid
of your religious basis, life becomes absurd. The reason so many
stupid ideas arise on the university campus is that it is so secular.
I drove past a sign that said, 'Join our synagogue - we're a nurturing
community.' We didn't have that language when I grew up.
Jewish religious life is moving left and right. There's no center
any more. There's now bottled water with a kosher sign on it. There
wasn't that when I grew up. You never worried that water was not
kosher. The religious are multiplying religious laws. The left are
abandoning tradition.
7/2/03
Sgil reacting to Dennis Prager's first hour [topic includes: plaintive
lawyer openly teaching at university, and planning the "5 or 6"
cases against fast food companies]
One of the statements made was that the food companies need to
be sued because their low pricing strategies make it too easy for
people to overeat! Well, so much for stamping out hunger as a problem
for the liberals, now we must stomp out obesity! Of course -- it's
a quality of life issue. Preservation of innocent life? As a role
for government? Oh, how passe can you get, how retro!
This segment is so painful for me to listen to because DP won't
connect what he's complaining about to the Malthusian elitists and
their certainty that the planet needs to be depopulated. It's something
he'd dismiss even with pages of evidence staring him in the face
-- and if this were Friday, he'd follow this with his happiness
hour without missing a beat.
From
WSJ.com 7/2/03: BOSTON -- On a recent Saturday afternoon, John
Banzhaf, a plus-size professor of law, finished off his chocolate
fudge brownie, washed it down with a Diet Coke, and ambled up to
the front of a packed Northeastern University lecture hall to talk
about suing the food industry for making people fat.
Professor Banzhaf, an architect of the tobacco lawsuits that cost
Philip Morris and others hundreds of billions of dollars to settle
five years ago, teaches a course in public interest law at George
Washington University. He calls it his "sue the bastards" class,
and students must file a lawsuit to receive a passing grade. A federal
judge tossed out one of several Banzhaf suits against McDonald's
back in January, ruling that it's not the law's place to protect
people from their dietary excesses.
Still, the professor is pressing on. Addressing a sympathetic audience
here at the "First Annual Conference on Legal Approaches to the
Obesity Epidemic," Mr. Banzhaf declared that, among others, Burger
King, Taco Bell, Pizza Hut, Kentucky Fried Chicken and Wendy's would
be hearing from him soon. "Seven suits are in progress," he told
those on hand, mostly trial lawyers and their potential expert witnesses
in academia. "Three have been won, and four or five more are in
the works."
From
Reuters: CHICAGO (Reuters) - Kraft Foods Inc. KFT.N , the No.
1 U.S. maker of processed foods, on Tuesday said it would reformulate
many of its products, cease marketing in schools and take other
steps to counter a rise in obesity that could trigger a rash of
lawsuits against the food industry.
The maker of Oreo cookies and Velveeta cheese spread said it will
develop a range of standards this year to improve the overall nutritional
content of its foods and the way it sells them. It will begin making
the changes, which could take three years, in 2004.
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[10:07 AM] When DP encourages us to resist evil forces, he's a
force for good. When he merely upsets us and/or vents for us against
those controversial things he points up, the distinction of whether
it's for good or evil is sufficiently unclear to be troubling. When
he passes up opportunities to get to the heart of a problem -- well,
what better is there to criticize in him?
[2nd hour topic: DP asked callers to answer if they would be more
disappointed were they to find out that their kid smoked or cheated
on a test.]
Sgil46: If he gets to the heart of a matter too soon, or if he
lets a caller get to it too soon, the confused and perplexed won't
call in, and he won't be able to demonstrate to them that they're
confused.
Sgil46: From a programming standpoint, this is good. Talkshows
thrive on controversy.
Sgil46: But, in the end, when the hour is up, how often does DP
reveal the heart of the problem even as he sees it? And how often,
in the interest of his programming, has he cut off the caller who
sees further than DP?
Sgil46: Now, you and I know that DP's enemy critics would take what
I'm saying and use it against him. They would lay the problem entirely
to DP's self interest and/or cynicism.
Sgil46: Wow, In fairness I must salute DP. He permitted his late
callers to explain that smoking can be overcome, but cheating is
a blemish that is hard to erase and to forgive oneself over all
time. I pray he'll continue, that he'll make a habit of getting
to the heart of controversies he raises.
[Third hour, DP had a liberal critic come into studio. Ari Moss
wrote in response to DP's
22 questions he had on "are you a liberal?"]
DP and Ari touched on liberal opposition to the DP.
Sgil46: Traditionally, the key to the legitimacy of a truly liberal
govt system is one that protects innocents [Social Contract]. Those
who insist upon absolute certainty over who is guilty will leave
the guilty free to claim more victims. Those who insist that there
is no such thing as deterrence from the death penalty care not that
theirs is an extreme position that flies in the face of everything
we know about human nature. Some won't be deterred, but some will.
Presuming the never deters position relieves the holder of any sense
of responsibility for the actions of the some who would be deterred.
They have taken the position that, in that instance, the liberal
govt shouldn't protect innocents. And DP, once again, missed the
opportunity to get this kid, indeed all who haven't considered all
the consequences, to face up to his conscious decision.
7/1/03
People Magazine Inundated With Pro-Demi Letters
Actress Demi Moore, 40 years old, dates a 25-year old guy. And
the women writing in to People magazine are kvelling over it. Dennis
Prager says this is motivated by hatred of men's proclivities for
younger women and the desire of older women to believe that they
are sexy. Older women and younger men goes against male and female
nature. It's hard to believe that Demi's romance will lead to marriage.
It's cutesy.
Advantages to it - they will both die at about the same time. It
keeps the woman feeling youthful. But most women prefer a man they
can look up to.
A 35-year old surfing instructor calls in. He has hooked up with
a 52-year woman who loves to surf.
Prager interviewed two women who wrote in to People praising Demi.
One was 47 year old and one was 57 year old. Each thought they were
hot stuff and they admitted that their primary passion for writing
People was anger at society condoning men dating much younger women.
It's an anger at reality - that men fall in love with their eyes.
Two women were naive, thinking that older men dating younger women
was a singularly American phenomenon.
6/30/03
Stupid Credit Card Companies
I was at Ralphs the other day and my Bank One credit card was refused.
Sunday, I went to fill up my tank and my Bank One and my MBNA card
were refused. And I have a zero balance on all my cards.
So I was listening to Dennis Prager
on his nationally syndicated show today, and he relayed ridiculous
examples of VISA screwing him over. One, because he made two $1:83
Internet charges, which automatically triggered the cancellation
of his card, causing him great inconvenience. VISA does not alert
you when they do this. I've had this type of thing happen to me.
Another VISA card was cancelled on Prager's son David, who was
in Rome, and had lost his ticket to Tel Aviv. Why was it cancelled?
Because David spent more that day on the card than normal.
6/27/03
Dennis Prager says the Supreme Court's decision to strike down
the law in Texas against sodomy was a bad decision. DP, like most
conservatives and opponents of the Supreme Court decision, thinks
sodomy laws are a bad idea. But there is no Constitutional protection
to have certain types of sex. States should have the right to create
their own moral communities and let them compete against each other.
Dennis Prager
Visits A Nude Beach
Dennis Prager spent a week in
Europe. On a beach in Greece, he was surprised that half the women
were topless. He talked to three of them and found none of them
were from Greece. Greek women are more conservative.
Khunrum writes: "Research eh! Or did he want to get a bit
closer to some fine bare titties? That old pervert."
DP says nudity is not sexual. The women were more sexy with their
tops on.
Design writes: "Sure, thats why I always ask my girlfriend
to keep her top when we have sex!"
DP says: The women aren't going topless to be erotic. They are
doing to it becaues they want to feel uninhibited.
Public nudity makes us more like animals. Clothing gives dignity
to the human being. Public nudity is degrading.
If there's no issue with a topless beach, what's the issue with
a bottomless beach? What's the big deal? Why should something be
covered?
DP says he is opposed to topless beaches, not primarily out of
sexual modesty, but out of human modesty and human dignity.
DP was asked what if his wife wanted to go topless on this beach.
How would he react? DP said he would want to take her pulse. He
says his wife has a stronger sense of propriety than he does.
Dennis was impressed by all the priests and nuns in Rome. People
wearing religious garb amongst secularists has a powerful affect
on society. American nuns who've gone native have made a dumb choice.
Undoubtedly some of the religious people wearing religious garb
were jerks, but the overall affect was positive. It elevates society.
In Thailand, many young men become monks for a year or two. If
this society did that, have its young people devote themselves to
a celibate holy year, studying your sacred scriptures, it would
transform society. Just as nude beaches have their impact.
Mutt writes: You are too much Luke. Of all the people in all of
the world, all the celebrities in Hollywood available for you to
stalk, you pick some middle aged pedantic radio bore. oh well......i
guess that's what makes you the screwball I like.
Bizarre Hugh Hewitt Exchange
Hugh Hewitt published a book, writes for www.weeklystandard, and
is a Christ shockjock on the radio, syndicated on largely, I think,
Christian radio stations, including KRLA in Los Angeles where Dennis
Prager syndicates from.
This afternoon, 6/16/03, I heard him talking with a 24-year old
unmarried male caller.
Hugh says pre-marital sex is immoral.
Caller: Why?
Hugh: Because my Scripture says so.
Caller: So it's relative then. Jews don't think pre-marital sex
is unholy.
Hugh: Yes they do. Most Jews think pre-marital sex is unholy.
[Wrong. Only Orthodox Jews and a few Conservative ones believe
that.]
Caller: Dennis Prager doesn't believe pre-marital sex is unholy.
Hugh: Yes he does.
[Wrong. Prager would call it unholy not immoral.]
Caller: You should read Prager's book, Think a Second Time.
Hugh: I never read any of Dennis's books.
Caller: Jews would say it's unholy.
Hugh: That's the same thing as immoral.
Caller: No it isn't. Eating at McDonalds for Jews is unholy but
it is not immoral.
Hugh: Eating two fish sandwiches at McDonalds is immoral because
it would deplete the ocean.
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